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The Parrsitivity Podcast #Episode 62 Adie Pascual

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In today's episode im joined by Adie Pascual, she's a life coach/ tarot card reader! In today's episode we talk about spirituality, coaching and much more! @Happymystic_ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/the-parrsitivity-podcast/message

Hither. My name is Adam Po and the podcast host posity to podcast. In this podcast, you will be listening to me connect with people from different walks of life, from the military to people in the music industry, to people in the self help industry and many other areas of life. In this podcast I'll be talking about topics from self help, mental health, motivation, spirituality, mindset, society, current affairs and much, much more. If you enjoy this podcast, please subscribe, share and let me know your feedback. And my main intention on this podcast is to have a positive impact for you, the lit the listener, to take something positive from it, to apply something positive into your life from this. Now with without further ado, let's go to podcast and enjoy. Hi, and welcome to the polity to podcast. In to day's episode I'm with a D Pascual. She's a life coach and Tara reader. In today's episode we talked about spirituality, energy, happiness and much, much more. Now, sit back, relax and enjoy this episode. Hi, hi, di, how are you doing? You hear me? Okay, how are you guys? Good, good, good, yeah, I'm good. Tuh. Yes, so I appreciate you coming on the podcast. When it means a lot. Yeah, I'm glad to be here. Thanks for inviting me. It's really kind of yeah, you're very welcome. So, like with what you do, how did you kind of get into it, like because on your profile it says you like Tara reading and then like coach as well, and I think you you've came a coach to the same place that the animas. Yeah, absolutely well, they're going to aspires. A long story. I only got into tower reading and anything to do with, quote unquote, the spiritual community maybe about fives okay, yeah, and the reason for that is my we're how far back you want me to go? Basically, it's whine whatever you feel comfortable, you know, Sharon. Okay, so I'm originally from Philippines. Yeah, and my upbringing, I think the main kind of influential factor was that I was brought up in a Christian war. Then environment, and you know how much you know about that. But in like in my experience, it's been I felt confined in it. And of course I you know, we talked about like what did it teaches about, like the Gospel and and all of the...

...really good things, but but for me it felt a lot of judgment. And so I basically back when I was a teenager when we came here to the UK, it was it was basically a culture shot for me because, my goodness, all of these people would different religion. Few I thought before was complete less than because they're not believers of my Christian faith. It was completely shattered, basically. And so, you know, having friends from from different blackgrounds and the living from really like open me up and I basically got into, you know, young relationship with different religions and obviously that was a massive no, not for a Christian girl. And I got to a really tricky point and I will remember journaling when I was about nineteen and I was like I was speaking to broad I was like God, I want to I think I'm going to back off from Christianity and really figure out what's out there, because what I've been taught doesn't really match what I'm seeing. What I makes me think HMM. And so I basically was atheious action for a couple of years because, yeah, this isn't through. Everything's pretty lie. And I think in my second or third, can't remember now, for second or thirty of my university, I went through a really tough time because I had a health scare. Hmm, import of everything. Okay, health scare, you basically become aware that you're going to die one day. Right. Yeah, that was that was a massive wake up forul and I went through a lot of guilt and I was so scared for my life because I thought like God was punishing me for leaving the chat and basically being a disobedient child, because they keep you if you disobey your out of God's protecting Popo. Like, Oh my God, this is it, like God has caught up with me and it's pain. Yeah, and then, yeah, it was. It was a year of a year and a half of health anxiety, like quippling health anxiety, basically. Yeah, who with a point where I yeah, there was panic attacks, being scared of like going at the house, and so I started looking for feeling right, like that's I guess that's what cultures do. Yeah, yeah, and so I I you know, I think about a yoga cloth. They started because my boyfriend's mom was very spiritual and, you know, she would she would always say like like there's no division between religions, there's no there's nothing like the separate and back in that point I was like no, but what Christianity is like more like a proved and I would I would like, yeah, like talk about it, but not really know what I'm talking about. Because so I didn't really clock that Yoga was a part of this whole, I guess believe, the form of of the world of like work. Yeah, and I just enjoyed it as an exercise class, basically, but as it gets as it got worse. I then stumbled upon a Candalini Yoga Book. Right, why is that?...

Can Delini Yoga is is another branch of Yoga and they're the basic belief. Yes, it is like union, but they talk a lot about you know, your coundline. Energy starts from the base of your spine. And do you awaken that? And when you're waken that through, you know, exercise, to meditation, through chance and your lifestyle. It's your connection to divine right, I don't know. Do you? Do you like? Do you? I'm I'm pretty spiritual myself and I'm I'm not. I've never yet, I've never practice yoga, but I'm I'm aware of like energy pot wasn't Shankar is, yeah, that kind of thing. Yeah, and so when, when like in this book, they will basically talking about how we are all connected and work. It's the energy is frequency. Yeah, and how I guess it. Like it my my analogy. Now a metaphor. Is that what we're walking why? Bye Routers, and what we're constantly looking for, what matches us. And so basically, that's that's what it started, and I started reading about, like, you know, the lights down of it, like why? Why? Why? People who practice can delete, can delineing, Yoga, you know, eat vegetarian food, because what you what you eat. So if we, if we, if we're not vegetarian, for example, what they say is that when an animal killed, the new they go through that suffering and you ingest that suffering too, and so, but but the point is you're trying to make your body is as light as possible. Hm, that makes sense. Yeah, of course you are. You. How do you get into you that code coaching or spirituality, Chancy, like what? Yah, yeah, I'll I kind of got into it, like, I think, through experience. I think I've always been very aware and you know, I pick up on how people feel in emotions, you know, like for empathy, and then my ancestors on my granddad's side of like me to Americans. I think it's just kind of in my wiring in some way. But yeah, I think through experiencing, you know, certain events where I've kind of, you know, seeing spirits and kind of not in full, but not in full form, night full form, but I picked up on, you know, energy and things. Yeah, I saw a few. You know, I saw like like an outline of like a face when I was little, and then it kind of freaked me out and then I've had lot other experiences where, you know, I'm not felt myself, my complete sell and I've heard noises or just felt things, being aware, you know, touch based on some things, and then I was like you know this, this is something you know. So I've always kind of been like tuned into energy and the we're an interested in it as well, and just kind of tuned into it a bit more. Oh my goodness, Oh yeah, that that that okay, so great. See understand like everything that that I'm saying then, yeah, of course, and that like from that understanding, I think with with the Yoga, that's when I connected so many things, like what you're saying, like for exactly, like you know, they say like in Christianity, that that that if you see spirits, then devil straight away, like it was, that it was that kind of hmm, that's just like bad. But actually really it's not not everything...

...that we see, is it, isn't it? Yeah, it's the thing is I think like as well. If you pick up on things or you see certain things, it's not always bad. You can't always assume that as bad. But I think of what you were saying in terms of like how you grew up and being, you know, I said, confined to in that religion and are you for and fell and then, you know, you came, came to the UK and you know, it's like a massive difference and shift than was its culture. Shift, doesn't it? You see, it's like it's like it if that's all you've probably known. You know about what you used to yeah, and that was all the norm. And then you meet people who think and feel differently about certain things. It's like going to in awakening in some way, isn't it? That I suppose you have kind of hats try and find your feet, because what you believe then you kind of really fought about it. Once you speak to other people and see their views, I actually didn't think of it that way. I didn't that you mentioned that coming here as a sort of awakening and and Jack I kind of was yeah, yeah, that's been a the bubble, definitely, and of course I'm not saying like a chance is that? Like I feel like everything that Jesus was teaching came out, but like and he was still connected to like the vine. And I I told my parents this. Actually I found God outside of the chat because I'd finally understood what it what it meant when you know, like God is omniscient, omnipresent, only potent, because God is like for me now, it's what runs in all of us. So that made sense. Hmmm, yeah, that miles we when I did our read school, we covered on I remember covering on the potent on me. Yeah, I'm not religious myself. I'm very open, you know, dumb that I don't have any anything against religion or I'm very, you know, open minded and I'm open to learn, you know, like different views and different points, but I think, like religion and faith and spirituality, it's up to the person themselves, really, isn't it? You've got to make up your own mind and if you're like you said, if you grow up in a certain place where you're told to believe a certain faith, you know it's like are you making up your own mind? In that way, it's you know, a lot of people probably believe in certain faith and religious because they don't want to disappect disappoint their parents, so they just oh my goodness, yes, there a lot of pressure around it. Exactly, oh my goodness, so, so and so. Yeah, I think, Pete, it's so important to be like would what you're doing, for example, just listening to other people stories from walks of life, just to expand. So it's really quite amazing. M Have you found that yourself? Like me, not, I appreciate I I feel like it has in some aspect, I think, without even being aware of it at first, because I didn't really when I started this, I didn't really take it too serious. I was like, you know, I just got an idea, I'll just play around with it. Yeah, but then, you know, when you meet lots of different people, it gives you that perspective and it makes you think about your own life. I think yourself as well, because, like sometimes...

...we might think that we've had, I don't know, hard times, whichever one's had their own things happen, and then you listen to someone else's. Wow, okay, you know that person's strong. It kind of it can make you want to be probably stronger, but it's it. You know, if I like, I look connecting with people and listening to their stories and why they do what they're doing, how they think, and you know, we're all on this kind of journey together and I think you know, by connecting it's quite in an amazing way of putting someone out there, you know, someone positive, because we evolve and change through connect with people. It's so true. It's like that round our son quote, isn't it will all this will each other home. Yeah, I love that. It's it's so true. HMM, yeah, I'm so, but I with your sorry I say, with your Tarret. Like I I've been with people sometimes when, when when they've done like Tara reading of the cards. My Mom's got like these angel cards as well. They're really I don't know what to make in them, but it's been very accurate so how I've been feeling or what's been happening. Sometimes when the person's done them exactly, oh my goodness, I would it my relationship with the terra it. It was just such a strong like pull when I when I first kind of stumbled upon it, it was just kind of the readings on you look, people do that at the moment, and like I just consumed as much as I could and then I finally got kind of like the intuitive hit that you need to get your own depth and need to get your own deck. But yeah, and then I am actually parted with Oracle card. So I don't know if you know the difference. Like your angel cards big my coracle cards, but the tarer is is like a complete and individual like system. But yeah, it is very accurate and when I do readings. Now, if you were to ask me how it works, I honestly cannot tell you because it just when you tune into a person and you you know, you ask your guys, you do your prayer in the beginning, they start showing you. It's not vision, but it's a symbols and messages like in your I mind, life. It didn't sane. How like, how like, like what I've been realizing is that I seen to people's houses. So and it it couldn't. It gets confirmed when I watch some watch someone. Sorry that I did a reading for I was like, Oh my God, I was literally in their house, like seeing them this and so I don't know, and that it's I wish we could, because I know there are a lot of studies that debunk, you know, psychics and all of that also at the same time. What is that then? What is what are we tapping on you? Is it high like well, you know, it's almost like another round. Isn't it like another kind of a frequency that we can't necessarily see? I think, and I think like if you're doing those cars, what I believe is are you know, you're tuning into another wavelength or you're tuning into a kind of a realm through that. Yeah, it's true, exactly. It's insane. It's...

...so powerful. Do you do you connect? How do you connect to like you have spirit guys, like how what's your spiritual healthy like? Like I I don't necessarily like see, like I'm not like a psychic where I can see and talk spirits are I can't do clearvoy and see. I just you know, I'm very tune into energy and frequencies and emotions and energy. Hi, I'm not not. I don't think I've ever gone to see a spiritualistly, yeah, that I've not been told or my spirit guide looks like, but be interesting to find out. I think we've all kind of got whenever. Yeah, absolutely, and I think like, for in terms of local readings that I've I've done sometimes they sometimes it's a feeling it. I think it depends on what they are, because obviously we can touch on like really out there things, but sometimes it what do you feel like you're closest to? Do you like what does your what does it feel like for you? What spirits? But I can spiritual kind of connor sense, I think. I think, like I said, with my ancestors, like I'm quite tuned into nature and, you know, the outdoors. You know, like if I was in the garden like some tither go and collect some water for my mom, but and I'll feel like I've already done it before. It comes natural to me, like, you know, if I need to get sticks or kindling or if I need to get something, you know, from like a woodland, a lot I'd be quite happily, you know, without thinking. Almost yeah, that's so far. It's that's kind of like yeah, we kind of how I connect with you know, on a spiritual sense, just picking up on things. Like I've been stated, places were aware, you know, picked up on things or things have happened. I kind of think to myself, why, you know, why it's happening. You know, why am I picking up on this? Some people don't pick up on those kind of things. Yeah, it's it's interesting, you know, and I think, I think unless you're open to it, unless you are you're open to it and you tune into it, is you as you do with what you're doing, then you're open yourself up to it. I think people who don't see or experience and things there not open to act. So much fear around it to you, if you know. Yeah, massive is. Yeah, I think like when you say like opening up, it's a opening up to specific things too. Yeah, because, yeah, in terms of like praying, you only specifically set the intention that it's only of the highest like good vibration. Yeah, that's so. I mean so like in terms of coaching, right, dude, you combine the two. Do you do find that effective, or do you both do it separately? So you do the coaching, you do Tower Reading with the coaching, or so I actually am only doing readings of women. I paused. I've posed coaching since late last year because I'm with animas. Work for Animus as a course consultant. Yeah, right, terms of like the coaching, I guess you can say the Consultation Cause are pretty much like coaching because you're you'll help, you're helping clarifying for the people who want to call that they want to become a coach...

...or not, and it's the best thing ever. Yeah, oh, but I'd work. That's the plant, basically. Yeah, yeah, to help people just connect with their own intuition. I think that has because when you're connected with yourself at there's just so much power. And Yeah, it's just a limited power. I think spirit, if you yeah, I think like you know, if you can, if you tune into yourself and you get to know yourself, you done. Allows you to get to know an and tunes office, you know, because often, you know, you got to know yourself to, you know, help know someone else or to help someone else in that way. But, like, do do you have crystals at all? You like have not stage, but the incense sticks and things like that. Yes, absolutely. I think I'm pretty sure I've looked at this before, but did you know that there was actually a study done about how the age actually cleansed yet, and so it's not. I know it can seem like a trend, but yeah, absolutely, I use it to invoke like that. It almost brings me back to like that certain frequency that like yeah, I'm connected and crystals to like holding my like massive lebrod right, like do you ever think, yeah, yeah, I've got I've got a chunk of am first and I've got like a big kind of chunk of course, which I've had many years. That just yeah, that pretty grounding and it's just amazing how like the earth has created it now, like that's yeah, there's if you seen those caves where there's massive, massive chunks of quarts kind of lie, the lie, you know, the size of double decker bustles. No, I haven't answer. Yeah, to send you a link to these caves are filing like a self? I don't know. So I think some of them are in Mexico or these Self Eastern Asian past the world and for these big, massive caves. And there's you saw these giant crystals, you know, sticking out the cave, in the cave. But you know, people have to wear special equipment and as much suits. Because of the gases, you can only be down there for certain Oh my God, that guy. I've watched videos of mining crystals, but not in the sense that it's like a la cave that you have to wear. Have my past. Oh my God, that's amazing. Yeah, it's. It's pretty. Crystals are amazing and, like I said, they're from, you know, they from the ground, from the universe, and's, you know, they very cleansing. You know, you can use them to like, you know, cleansy shackles, can you? And they all have different healing properties as well. Yeah, I think like I went through a period where I didn't really understand crisp. Like I started off, oh my goodness this, this has been I would I believed in it at the beginning, but then who quote, like okay, really, what what is this? But when you really think about how it was formed and the structures, M has that definitely have a frequency. Yeah, Oh yeah, massively, massive is it is so interesting. Like as well, I find that with music, there's there's a guy come pretty good friends with who don't podcast called his musician name is...

...nudes and the D es. He's here. I had him on the podcast and he's really spiritual and he makes music. Is Music contest and one of us. A few of his songs have been played on apples TV commercials, but his music is very like, you know, up be a high energy and it's almost like a frequency, and I think like music is powerful, music can heal and music as like something that can have an impact on know, in music is almost like an energy. Do you listen to any kind of music or these are kind of relaxation, kind of sound still readings? I definitely have a playlist for that. Absolutely. Yeah, because it just I listened to a lot of I don't know how to describe that music, but it's like it's the chance. So that's like straight channel, like change for me too. Is that a proper practice? I've I doing a kind of one that I have is if you heard of a guy called Alan Watts? What's easy? NF. No, he's NFPs famous, NFP Buzzn't is he? I didn't realize. I don't realize it because we're both NFPR saw as well. Yeah, Oh God, yeah, but yeah, he he's got a lot lots of his logs and his audio tapes on Youtube and I downloaded one and do these chance on it and there's all these kind of weird kind of chime sounds and then they are these people doing these weird chance and and sometimes I play in my car or play music on my car and it will come from on shuffle and it freakly freaks me outcause I'm like, what is this noise? And then it makes you feel very different. It almost can shift your emotional state. It's really, really strange that I don't know if he saw this videoto on Instagram, that there's a it's a dad in a crying baby and you know, there's baby crying, crying, crying, and the dad like chance own and the baby like pacifies. I completely. I must find that videos and see you. Yeah, definitely, there's so much, just so like just thinking about it, there's so many ways that you can connect to just something bigger than you, and I think that's a yeah, yeah, not massively. I think what you said. There's lots of different levels, isn't I to it. You know, you've got sound, you've got spirituality and no'll kind of all connect together as well. You think about it. Thought so poor and I like what would I do? Think that people are starting to to do that a lot more and I think that also has to do with social media making it feel accessible. Just great, look, that's another like copy conversation. But yeah, I I'm so glad that I stumbled upon this, this like advert for a workshop, a broddess circle workshop of like one they're going to, and I think that's that's...

...what started me on team to become a coaching in Paran of my us. Basically, HMM, Nice, awesome, and I think, like you said, it's all these kind of different chains of events, isn't it? Kind of one thing leads onto another that opens up another door and then you kind of animals. Actually, I I kind of found out about it because I was kind of like hard as I durnals that one thousand nine hundred and twenty. You know, I was kind of working and I'm trying to find myself. Really, I'm trying to figure out what I don't wanted the trade. Tried, you know, join in the military. That wasn't really for me. Yeah, I was asking about joining the police and then the police in the army, and then I like, you know, it's still what upon psychology and I was lot of interested in psychology and criminals and that kind of thing. So I end up getting into university knot to come Trent, where I'm originally from, and a couple of months into the course I was just like not enjoying it and I didn't see myself having a career in that line of work. So I kind of as thinking about, you know, what can I do, what I do, and then I remember like the Col on Google and I was I started watching like Tony Robbins and that, you know, kind of coaching kind of side of things. And then, yeah, I stumbled uponner animals, got of looking at looking for life coaching courses, and then, yeah, I went and did it and my Auntie and I called my great aunt and Uncle Living Twickenham. So I get a train up to there and stay there's and kind of went from there. Really kind of stood out to me really animals, you know, among story other courses. Yeah, it was the same me like doing the introductory. That was different. I'm pretty sure. I don't know if I were joining because I had like a like a module change, and I don't know like for you too, but I can't remember what more. Pretty sure we shared a model together like that point. I know you, but I don't know. Yeah, when it was? I can't remember now, but yeah, might been the third or the fourth, because I think it was five. Wasn't the five or six, but I yeah, the the muds are really good. I think Robert, Robert Stevenson, Robert, his was pretty good. I think he did the first one this podcast. I'm just saying, I yeah, yeah, and give him a Chelle. But Nice is an amazing journey, isn't it? You learn so much about yourself and you know the people as well. Level transformation, because we go into it. You go into it and then you already have a certain certain level of Stulf awareness, but because you're learning more tools, it's like, oh my goodness, does more what? Yeah, yeah, is that? Is that one that you found that out of massive impacts on us, a favorite module that you did, is it? Or slutely? Oh my goodness, now there isn't me. Was that yours too? Yeah, yeah, goodness. It was just like, Oh, this is why I'm a coach, like this is it. This is like my my style. Like what did you think? Yeah, no, I agree. I completely kind of blue my mind a little bit on. Did that presence one because it enabled you to kind of like be...

...like this podcast. Now listen and tune into yourself and the other person. By we we did it where, you know, you had a we took it in turn, you take you take it in turns, you co you get coached yourself and then you coach and you've got someone observing and it just I think it'll kind of enabled you to tune like a deeper level and able you to really listen. Because, I mean before that, yeah, module, I mean Maybell, you probably foughty Soelf. You know I'm good at listening. No, I listen. And then with that module, it was like you, you tune, I everything else that's happening around you, even like the noises, like the odd noises outside. Use Picking it kind of do you knows me, and you pick up on all those noises around you and it's like like a frequency. Do you remember that exercise? With it, it was basically you. It's just ten minutes of listening and it's just the other person talking and for us of US talking, it's like wow, that's so much that's going on. And they even just with the ten minutes, like Oh my God, I got my arms already but yeah, it can't. You know what that model actually really put put into perspective of what at can't totally teaches. That's yeah, I feel like, Oh, this is how we apply it when we have a conversations. Because like, of course, like reading the power of nows, like for yourself, but then offering that up to another person is you know, it's not. It's even more powerful. Yeah, it takes it to that next level in some way, doesn't it? Because we we we did that exercise, I think. Then we watched videos of car rodgers, and that was pretty, pretty amazing because, I mean he was a you know, it's kind of built on what he started. Really love the foundations of it, but you know, like it's something I think, you know, everyone should kind of do, even if they don't want to go into a career. Wise, I think you learn a lot about it. I think you learn a lot about yourself and other people exactly. Yeah, yeah, but is there, you know, any advice you'd give to people like who might be, I don't know, like struggling with the mental health right now or, you know, not feeling themselves, because they're often happening. You know, like any advice you give people to like tune into themselves, you know, practice, probably some of the exercises you do. Questions. First thing that came to me was that, what ever hardship suffering that you go through, that it's a massive portal too something potentially even better. It's like the it's think of it as the catalyst to the net version of you and Goll and, and that it's so necessary to go through that and what it's teaching you throughout that that tricky time is is you go in. You just you have to go in. What would it's not just outward. It's not outward solutions this. You have...

...to go inside. So I'm key. I keep repeating that, but I feel like I tuned into myself, you know, a couple of years ago and and that's what I needed to completely come back to myself. And what is this inside me that, you know, makes life continue? Yeah, and and I think when you, when you touch, touch that like bit that nothing else outside can touch. That's that's what it's about. I think that's that's what the suffering is calling you to do it. Yeah, no, that's a really, really good point and I think, you know, you kind of hit the nail on the head. They're really because, you know, like said, people when you're when you're going through a hard times or someone's going through a hard time, as you can't almost see the light end of the tunnel, you kind of think this is always going to be this way and, like you said, it might propel you to the next thing. The image that they're giving me right now is one with one of the readings that I did. They said go through, go through the caves yourself, no one else, no one else knows the nooks and famies of your own cave, but in that cave is where you're going to find your light. And so, HMM, yeah, like that's I think that's it's the hermit card in the Tarot. That's that's what I would m yeah, that's it. So it's part of its part of the game of life leveling. So just play the game. Yeah, Nice, that's really that's really, really powerful and I think you know it's it's really it's really deep and I think you know, like, every person is different, aren't they, and everyone's going through a different thing, or someone will go through different thing as some time, and it's quite as quite personal to each person. But, like you said, you know, by going within yourself and not see you king things externally to try and fix the things, but not it's it's finding that voice. Yeah, absolutely, HMM, yeah, sir, but Nice it's been. It's been great talking to you ad and like. Where can people find on social media? Yeah, it's at happy mystic. I'm just cool, basically for having no no, you're very welcome, very welcome any time. All right, talking to you. You. Take care of a great day. Talk. So.

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