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The Parrsitivity Podcast #Episode 97 Jia Tibinte

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In this episode I'm joined by Jia Tibinte Instagram:@Jia_Tibinte Jia is a YouTuber that makes videos around mindset & the laws of attraction YouTube: https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCC6aAlpef-4JnFr8Ee_3Scw --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/the-parrsitivity-podcast/message

Hither my name is Adam Po and the podcast host posity to podcast. In this podcast, you will be listened to me connect with people from different walks of life, from the military to people in the music industry, to people in the self help industry and many other areas of life. In this podcast I'll be talking about topics from self help, mental health, motivation, spirituality, mindset, society, current affairs and much, much more. If you enjoy this podcast, please subscribe, share and let me know your feedback. And my main intention on this podcast is to have a positive impact for you, the lit the listener, to take something positive from it, to apply something positive into your life from this. Now with without further ado, let's go to podcast and enjoy. Hi and welcome to the policies podcast. In today's episode I'm doing by Gr to be into Ga, is a youtuber that makes inspirational and motivational videos on the law of attraction and selfdevelopment. In this podcast, talked about the law of attraction, energy, mindset, motivation, success, time, covid and much more. Now, sit back, relax, enjoy this episode. Yeah, it's fine, yes, we'll get it. So I just want to say no, thank you for you know, coming on podcast. Really appreciate it. Thank you now. You're welcome. Yeah, I just I just thought I start by asking you, like how you got into like Youtube and doing what you do like. And Yeah, it's basically old interest of mine. So, and I've been researching about the topic so much, and I thought it was mainly to do with the whole manifesting series really, so I've been creating like parts on it just to you know, rather than people going to different areas in order to find all the information, like I did still have in one area. That that was the main thing. And obviously self development is like an old personal like it in a really big interest of mine because I really like a lot of stuff like that. Such is part of sharing that information and if someone benefits. So yeah, no, I think I think it's really good that you know something that you're passionate about and something that you're happy about doing and that it's positive and you know it's something that people need and I think people can take a lot from it. Yeah, definitely, I think it helps a lot of people. Know How much it helps me, like where I was in my life and then once I discovered the whole thing on how to do it or how you can. You are actually the creature of your life, how you can create whatever you want. You know, you're not really limited by any options. A part for where the divilitation that you end up putting onto yourself. So, which was like a big thing for me, because I was like, at what point I was just completely stuck thinking that can't do anything or I will be able to do whatever, what I really want to do or whatever. So once I started get after that and find new things out, that's a lot of people should hear this. I think a lot of...

...people go through that. It's not just you know me, or you maybe whatever. Yeah, now I agree. I think, like you said, like our thoughts, you know, do you know? I'll believes in our thoughts do make our reality? Don't? And I think we can all, we can all think and believe a certain way that, you know, where we're not probably going to be anything or where you know, I'm sure, what direction wanted to go. And Yeah, definitely. I mean it's always good to just ask yourself, like you know what you're doing, you really want to do it, and if it's not, then you know all the answers are within you. Yeah, trying to go and ask at the people, because other people are always going to give you their opinions and that's their beliefs and they're limitations the shows that end up taking on itself there and do that. It's always best to sit down with yourself. Always been. It's really good to like, you know, getting yourself into that stage where you're able to ask yourself questions and then you know that the answer automatically coming to you as well. You speaking to you. So that's a really good to do it because you end up finding out that this is exactly what I want to do. And sometimes when you get, when people end up meditating and get into that state stage of their life, but it's so good at meditating in their mind. Is that like so calm? Things just, you know, flash into your brain, like idea. I think it is not mentioned in another book I read. Yeah, do actually just six at an idea, that an opportunity and you just know from inside you just should act on it rather that delay it or you know, it doesn't like thinking that. Yeah, I think that's really true and I think, like you said, things do kind of flash into your mind or you get these ideas that just kind of likes pop into your head and you could be going for a walk, or you could be in the shower or you could just be sitting there. Yeah, I've had it, like going for a run once, this idea and as all, yeah, would I confront but you have to laugh. Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's just a moment of clarity where you just probably like thinking, I get it in the shower, and I'm like Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, because I said a lot of time to happen about earlier, when you know you're about to go as well happen. Then you just yea better get just write it or yeah, no, I definitely happens when I go to bed sometimes, like I I'll be thinking of something. I have to like get out of bed and write it down or put it in my phone or, like you're just I've noticed it with, like you know, my routine and schedule, like I kind of I'll put nose down in a bit of paper, then something comes to me and I'm like I'm afraid of almost forgetting it if I don't put it in my showe. Yeah, one of those that comes and you just have to act on it, like you know, there and then, yeah, and it's so good as well. You just like, Oh my God, I think of this before. Yeah, it is one of those things that I think the more relaxed to us. Obviously, all those times when you're in the shower, when you're going to sleep, and it's always those times when you're like in that very relaxed date, and that's when you know all the ideas are already bad. It's just like you can't see it because your mind is so busy with so much water. Yeah, if when you start to relax your mind, that's you can actually be like Oh, yeah, actually do it. Yeah, it's that kind of good. Sorry. The only thing, basically, that it's good to the if they do comment to your mind, to give them a goal, because you never know where they may need you. Like, you know, you might be something that you've already thought of, but then that opportunity might need you to that thing that you actually want to do, say, where you actually see yourself. Yeah, so always just too good good to just, you know, go for it and see where it is you and if it doesn't work, it isn't what you've learned a lot from it. Yeah, Naskey, isn't it? It's like just trying and take that lead. It can be scary taking that lead because it's in the unknown. We like to like to have certainties human beings. We like to know definitely how things are going to put out, especially, you know, with this current situation. And I think, yeah, it's just diving into it. If it doesn't work out, doesn't work out. You know, if even if it is kind of something that you do like,...

...it's just building on that, isn't it? Yes, I think anything that going to take you to the next stage you're going to be scared to go for. But that's the thing that you have to put your spear aside and think of it in terms of an opportunity where you can learn where you wish, you can learn a lot from and then, obviously, if there's something like a new business or whatever that's to take that for example, there could be an opportunity where you could be, you know, going in for it and you could make a lot of money. Do you really want to get rid of the opportunity to because just set step out of your comfort self, like I don't. A lot of people think that they just such in the right race all the time. Like ninety five purely because they think all investing in a business would be, you know, times assuming is and I might use a lot of money, but think about the fact that you could make so much money rather than lose. That was for me. And it's all a learning curve. I think people are still scared. That still keeps you for all time as well. Yeah, and well, you know, when you're not willing to change any where, you're not willing to learn from you've got that learning mindset. I think the mindset things master all like. You've got the right mindset, then you'd be willing to give anything. A goal, a song. Obviously it's you know, it's a stupid yeah, when you go for you you'd be going in there with the mindset are I want to do well, I want to learn from it, I want to take as much, you know, gain as much for message, so they can and you know it works out in your favor because you've got the positivity that you put out, your bound to get that book. That that's just how the world works. You know, the law of the universe works like that as well. So you have to you, if you go in with that, you've got to get that back. That's all I and yeah, yes, that's an I believe that and it works like that as well. Yeah, no, I completely agree, like, if you've got those fears or if you've got those beliefs that you know, this man not work out, it probably won't work out if you're not putting in that energy and not for it to work. And, like you said, like just going with it and trying, you know, might lead to the next thing or that next connection. It is going to branch U from there. And like, you know what you say, like a lot of people have got these jobs where they're just so focus on the money and they're afraid to go away from that to do something different. Probably you know something now. Yeah, sometimes I feel like people want things but the desire isn't they're really like obviously anybody who want to get rich, but a lot of people don't want to put in the works off. They just want to be lazy about it. And definitely I think a lot of people are just, you know, they're just maybe the let the fee them over, and I think that's a mental decision that you make yourself that you're not going to allow certain things to take you over. You're going to make that decision, you're going to go ahead and if you find that just burning desire to do something, you will definitely do it. Yeah, and you a failure. I think a lot of people, I think it's just like put into us at a very early age that if you don't win out something, you're fearing a loser, and that thing really gets because it's not really like that. You do feel like something. You're not going to really feel you've learned so much that the next time you're not going to repeat that thing. You'RE gonna do it in a better way, a way you know you've got experience out that get by. That way doesn't work out. This doesn't exactly work out in the way that wanted to work out, but it's given me so many different lessons that I wouldn't you know, I would otherwise. Yeah, I think you're completely right and I think, like you know, we we find out our you know, through trying things, and that can be like, you know, work, or can be, you know, growing up, isn't it like? If we fail at something, we kind of, you know, we take our beliefs from experiences. If we have a sit you know, an experience where we fail at something, that doesn't mean that you're a failure. I think you know, like I've had that when I've gone the job in to use my got a job. I just to think, Oh, I'm not good enough. Yeah, it can be easy to think that, but you are good enough. It's just, you know, just that one situation we can let little, tiny situations, you know, affects so much of our life. Yeah, that's the thing. Like, I think that's that's where people take it home because you like, let's say, you've got job. You haven't works out, but now you know how to answer type of questions, questions,...

...you're going to get it and I always think that. You know, you may think that feeling universe knows so much best, the universe you find. You don't have to trust the process in terms of find this is this isn't work out for me about there was a reason I got a guy. The job don't work out for me. But I've been in been in that minds come back and I just said thank you for it, because even if I have at the job, I say thank you. So know that there's a better job out that for me. Yeah, it is. Going for that job would have meant, you know, a lot of problems for myself. That's the thing. You should always be like state of question so much all the time, even if things don't work out in your face, that you think that. Thank you. Actually it's probably the best for me, because your mind sets always in the state of expect invest you, so you don't even think otherwise. You don't even become negative of the obviously the normal thing to be next to some time like as I think everybody good through it, but it's up to you how much power you're giving to those sective force instead of your positive one. Yeah, you are all being positive all the time, then nobs is how negative a situation might be. You know your internal reality, the real one that you know you're going to be successful. No much for what. So there's no point if you reacting to externals in the next pay. Yeah, no, I I completely agree and I think that's a really, really good points, and I think like that's the the whole future, isn't sometimes people are in environments or jobs that they are happy and and they're not, you know, responding to that situation or taking control. You know, I've done it myself. I'm sure we all have emotions and our emotions. Holders in that place control how we think. Definitely, that's the thing where I think that's the best thing, once you get into this mold or to learn, I want to be best for all, about your own personal development. That's when you start working on yourself. You Stop caring about how other people are reacting towards you, stop caring about the situations around you. you start looking inside itself. You like, okay, what is it with me that I have to change in order for my external station? Change always starts from you. If you change your in a reality to change your tea, you change. If you know your reality will be the news inside of your head, because it's just that's just how it works that you think of something and then they reflected back to you. Even have noticed, like a lot of the times, you may think of ass scenario and you, because you've put some emotion and so or thought to it, that you end up seeing that scenario compete. You know comes life put that you put it into action. Now by thinking about with so much proportion, is it Alma feeling in there? So I think that's the most important thing. A lot of people get this thing wrong where they think that the outer reality they have to react to it in a certain way, you know, to feel happy and feel good about themselves and have that posts, whereas compute the opposing you have to think that what's in your head that matters. After that's the actual reality. So always think the SIM that or I'm thinking like this, but this is what's happening around you. So you know it doesn't feel good. I always say that, yes, those are the result of your previous manifestations. Point you were negative and you're seeing that nextivity around you right now. But because you have to use your mindset to a positive mindset now and you've got a different finality, then that's bound to come us now in the process and let the seed grow, letty manifest like you know, you've done it and you'll show up eventually. So that's how I tend to think, and I think that makes the Hu longest different real life, in a high by stage, rather than being affected by your colleagues, use your family or friends or whatever, and you realize that as well. What you change. I think you're probably realize that. Know what you change and great, yeah, people end up coming into your life. Naturally happen. Things happen for those people to just walk away from you, and you know it's happens for you, not to you. Yeah, so, no, I can completely relate to that and it's it's like you said. It's like you said, you're not, you know, you don't come from that victim, that piece of victim. Are Wise. It's happening to me, you know,...

...like these things happen for a reason and, like I said, it's almost natural, isn't it? Like you, you kind of we grow day in day are each day, you know, each week. You know, we're on the same people that we were a month ago, you know, a couple of weeks ago. Like you said, those are kind of vibrations and those out those energies you tune into, you kind of see probably, you know, my people, you might have come around with the wild, wild wild back you shifted and you know, different energy wave or certain jobs, and it's so important to tune into that. That's how it works. A lot of people think that that's just who I am. I've always been like this says you are a different person to have to think of yourself a day and new me. And you know, if I'm giving myself permission to be a new person, then you are a new person. You are every days, you youth. You have to accept that. And just because I see you were friends with somebody yesterday, that doesn't mean you have to be friends with them still on that level, because that person might in that mindset of like a negative mindset, all the ways taught their lives. But because you have raised your vibe, you have to accept that. That that's fall. I'm want to go for the way that, you know, I feel more right and I feel more yeah, I vibe and stuff like that. And Yeah, yeah, of course. What thing you ways that when you're not vibration, you're in that wave. You would then attract people and circumstances that aligned with that. Oh, I've actually I got into this. Like the New People that came into my life will get out even like, you know, I'd meet them randomly or place where I would live, and then they be there and you just want to see generally talking to them. Yeah, and suddenly start talking about, you know, vibrations and energies and attraction and stuff like that. If I play a lot of people you need and don't want to talk about that. They don't even yeah, it's crazy how when you start thinking like that and your mind is just completely filled with those type of ideas and you're constantly learning more about that. Feeling like that, you're, I think, much people who are exactly similar. You know their purchases are like that as well, where you know they're all about you, they're all about my bibn't want to talk negatively, and you realize that it does actually start or oil part within your brains. I want to change yourself, the things around you will change. Yeah, that's how that all. I didn't have to react to my sex. Is All all actually want me to begin with, like I had to give my mission to change. And when I change my vality change. Yeah, yeah, so the exactly, isn't it? I mean that quote who's bibles I when you change the way you look at things, look, the things you look at change. Yeah, yeah, it's the thing is, we're not I think. I think personally, I mean I don't know about you like but I think we should be taught like this in school by we know. It should be in the curriculum, I think deep down, because we're kind of figure out ourselves, don't could go out to the world and be like, Oh, yeah, this is how it works. Yeah, I think in my very, very first video on youtube when I like things that should be taught, I would have loved this part. I know for a fact I would have made way better decisions in my life because that time, like where I am in the things that I've done or things I've gone through, I would have definitely made better decisions because of knowing that information. But it's sad that they don't put that through. Like even in terms of the books that are out there, you don't know about them, you're never gonna reading my people waste their time as you don't doing other things, whereas if you read these personal development books, you will just change the persons. So realize that will be sorry, like actual develop that there's so much out there to learn. Yeah, yeah, apply it to your life as well and it makes a change, like a sudden change, as well to it's you. And the funny thing is that once you start changing like one, I like change about the obviously, you know it's kind of a topic that always ahead. You're talking about it and the other says you big just us feel like you want your friends and your family to do better the boxes that and I know like the impact I see...

...on my own song, in our for where they're thinking constantly, where somebody would just be complaining about light, or now they're thinking positively. So it feels so good that just because of you, you are making that impact on so many other people as well, like your family, obviously, and your friends. And that's even if affects of one person, you made a difference to that person. What I yeah, yeah, old and knowing about these type of thing. Yeah, exactly. Yeah, so it should be right, but I don't know, I feel like there's a bigger thing behind it. Why the dogs really put these? No, yeah, no, I completely agree and I think, like you said, reading books. I mean, you know, I think it's really important. I've got back into reading as well, and I think, like you take from other people's experiences and like you read books and you have to apply, don't you? Like you could read a book unless you apply, it's not going to work. But definitely I think as well, it's it. It flipped. It makes you flip your own perspective, doesn't it, because you can see someone else's experience and what they've been through for reading something and you're like wow, yeah, like so it makes you really think and I think that's that's important. I think they're through making content as well, especially you know, what you do is on your videos. You know, I said, you can help you, even if it's like one person, that's still a person. People who are speak to them. Like this time, happened to be that I'd be trying to find something like ours or something and it would just pop up on my feed, or if I'm searching for something else, it would come up like a new website came up those ones. I don't know what I needed to call remember exactly what it was, but I was reading a particular article and I wasn't really into it, but, as you there's something in you that's making you read it and I knew that one would ask you when I was reading it. There was some particular paragraph that came in that article that give me the answered by one of my questions that I was like, oh well, there you go this, yeah, I just reading particularly. Don't know what it was, but you know that. You know that guidance for you. So you accept that and when you're open to it, when you're open to receiving answers and you're open to receiving more knowledge, in doing better. Things come to you themselves ously. You are what you that's how it works. But it's it's one of those that if you know there are parents out there and you know that the correct one's not teaching that. I I know it's going to be a major thing where you should teach your soulds that. I like, not only music, where the fire except should be the most infult topics. You know, there should be a balance and teaching them about their life as well, because teach you that. Yeah, I think that's that's why I think a lot of pull a home school kids, no woman, because they can teach the kids the correct one that kind of teach them what they want. Really Yeah, people are into the idea where private the kids, but at the same time you feel like you need to get out there and meet other kids, interaction to them, learning a lot about other people world and how to be fast people. So I think it's really good to send them to school. Like, I'm very pro in terms of like send you have to investigate children. Yeah, yes, yeah, having to pay for I would say that that should be first thing, that you're bringing kids into the world, the main priority. So invested. You know that the teaching that you should being that knowledge for them. They know when they come home they've got positive parents in client se where they're able to take the best of world. Basically. Yeah, yeah, of course. On any so I think put a lot of importance on the normal education system and that I can have to get a start, to have to go to college, cuts go to uni. Yet the or is something that they're happy and...

...you know they're going to be more successful in something without following the normal thing. Yeah, allows them knowledge as long as yeah, yeah, now exactly. Isn't it like, you know, to have that information at such an early age? I mean where a good position now on the world, where there's so much technology and all these APPs that, you know, people can consume. Even what we're doing now, this podcast, can consumer, you know instantly. It's free, free guidance, is it. Isn't it like it's so important, you know what we're talking about in terms of like education and bringing kids into the world and put them into the right edge places of education, because you are the best for your kids. Yeah, exactly. You just have to be on top of it. You exactly what it is. Okay, so it's fine. You just have to be really on top of the game, like you should know exactly what your kids are being taught and then, at the same time, I think it's just so important self educate. You educate yourself so that your kids can learn from it and the people around you can be affected by it. Well, yeah, and the way he said. You know, this podcast can be going out to so many people. But, as I said before, like, if you want information, is available to you. Yeah, eat the information. Nowadays that if people say that all, I don't you know, I can't get someone where. I'm like, you know this, this is basically you're making an excuse for your own self. You know that plenty of information out there is at the day of fingertips. Yeah, it's pretty easy. Nice. This definitely is. No, I agree and I think like the guy, I want to push up, just do them. You can't read about you can't read about push yeah, you have to apply them to you can't just you can't just read a book and you're like, oh, yeah, read a hundred books, but obviously someone to make a change into your life unless you apply what the books are telling you. So it's it's exactly like that. You have to take out nothing. A lot of people take this thing really wrongly as well, where they're like, oh, I thought of it like I've got a desire for it. I thought, you know, I want so and so, I want to work, have to partner, or I want to attractice much money into my life or whatever I think. But they literally watching you not really creating opportunities for yourself. Yeah, yeah, you have to think how you have to take action, where it's like you know, you've ordered it is kind of like talking about you are leaving deceived. You believe that much. To Get up, you open the door and you have to get up. Yeah, yeah, you have to be able to yeah, I agree, and that reminds me that I saw one of your video clips and you're saying like if somebody wants to have a certain partner and they're their partner, you said, is into like fitness. There that persons, you know more ninety five percent out of a hundred, they're gonna go for someone who's in that criteria. It's not that, man. I think like some people, you know, go on with people on the same vibe. You look a certain way, and that's like lot of attraction, isn't it? Like, yes, it's how the world work. Yeah, it is. That the other thing that the whole thing was mainly because, when it comes to like attracting partners, a lot of people are like that want this and want this and want that and generally like, you know, you have have like a really good body and he must be ethe healthy and you know he shouldn't smoke and except some Blahlah Blah. But then when they look at them, when you look at that, those people themselves who were speaking like that, they're like nowhere near that, you know, they they don't do any exercise, they have takeaways all day and they're literally like smokers and...

...drinkers and such. And I'm like, well, you can't possibly expect a person like that. Let's say, even if you didn't meet them, they will look at you and they'll be like no, I'm not going to go for someone like you where, you know, we're like, let's see if they're searching for someone like that as well. So how can you expect them to go for some like you own vibe in order to attract those type of people? Yeah, so that that was the whole thing where those type of people are not going to lower their vibe and lower their standards to be with you. You have to work on yourself and get into that shape. If you you know stuff what you want to attract, you have to be that person. Yeah, or else it doesn't really work out. If you see some couple and if it's one is thinking in a completely different way, it's not going to, you know, match. Like if somebody wants to take away every single day and the other person might know we need to cook, need to eat, you know, make our own food and stuff like that, so it's not going to work. Yeah, you know, I agree. Is definitely that mutual vibeeness, isn't it? I think that's him. I know everyone's got different interests and things like that, but I think if you can have that you tor vibe, it's great and I think like, even if that person isn't really interested, you know, in what other person is doing, the still support the minute. Yeah, yeah, I think. Yeah, yeah, not completely. And Yeah, it's so important and I think like when you really tune into your your bybe it's a lot more clear, as we was saying I earlier. Yeah, I think it's a lot of people have got this thing wrong where they just like yeah, I can ask for anything, but they don't. The whole idea of it is, I think the waiting game comes along way they're like, okay, yeah, you know what, I've put the order into the Laura attraction to the universe and I received it in the head. They're actually believing everything, which is really good, because you have to. You know, a part of it is that you have to believe that you've received what you've asked for, which is Great. It's done that. But then when the waiting game, that then the something the waiting in with it. The cycle can I'm just waiting for the past to right. But it doesn't work like that. In that waiting thing, you are basically working on yourself in order to be who you want to attract. So there are things like it wherever you want to attract, you working on yourself in order to raise your vibrations that you cannot try those particular opportunities into your life. Yeah, so like, let's say, if you do want to attract somebody who's like really, really, really into the health, etc. And you're constantly working on yourself and you know, then you start thinking, okay, what foods should I be eating? And then you're just like you're setting on the food and you're like, okay, this is a type of me. Really is that I need. I need to go to the gym. And you created now an opportunity for yourself to now, when you go to the gym or when you go to group with supermarket or whatever, do I meet someone there? Yeah, you are creating that opportunity, but around otherwise you're not going to meet a person. Just as an example, you might not meet that person unless you went to that gym yourself. Yeah, yeah, sitting at home eating, how you how can you expect he's not just going to come? And it's really good to believe in it, but don't just start thinking that I'm just waiting for it to all right. You have to believe that that is your reality and think of that version of you, how that version of you live, so that new person, how she thinks, how she adds, how you know what her daily life is, and you start acting like that person today because for you, if that is really your reality, then that's how you will act. Yeah, yeah, so if you're thinking, okay, now on, I'm a I'm a healthy person and you have to behave like the healthy person that you are. You can't be eating, you know, the piece every night or you know whatever and then think that, oh, yeah, I'm a healthy person, I'm healthy person, but you're not behaving like the healthy person. Yeah, that's that's how it works. So you start taking action today, start being heaving like that person, and eventually you will see outside, you know, the things around you will change as well, like the people that you are trying. The opportunity that you were class will be on that vibe you by yeah, no, I I completely agree and I think like like with that as well. It's almost like, you know, if you do something, you work towards something day by day, that's small bit of action. Builds momentum, doesn't it, and it just it just gravitates over time. Yeah, you know, if you want to work out, you know, okay, do probably ten press up today, for a week after week, do twenty. You know, if something there's a quiet...

...that these guys did them, set them a podcast and it was get, you know, get comfortable being uncomfortable. You know something's uncomfortable, do it more. You'll get better at it. Yeah, exactly like your youtube videos, you know, like first one you probably really nervous and then after you've done a few, you like not as nervous. You know. Yeah, yea, it's one. Don't you get better with time? Think a lot of people are like, I'll do it when everything's perfect, you know, I've got the perfect equipment, when I'm when I know my knowledge is top knowledge and everything like that. It's like the whole idea with this type of thing is start today and start now, like, even if it is for five Y is today. Oh, I thought I mentioned this and want to be at the fours or video of something where I said if you want to do something, as you said, do tempership, do something, but even for like a minute or five, it is do it now and then just build it up, because in them anten moment then you build a momentum, don't you, because you did before time, like before you know it you'll be right, really good at something that you well, I oh no, I can't do this, etc. You have to make a start, even if you're doing it for five minutes, do it and then eventually you'll see yourself getting better. Like I haven't them much, obviously in terms I've hony videos I've done, but look at the first video. I'm just like but now I know how much have improved. But if I didn't do that, I wouldn't be in this place where I'm still improving. I know I'm not the best. No, not the greatest, but in terms of like the whole editing and everything, I've to no court in it, whatever you I'm learning as I'm going and that's that's the case with a lot of people when they've made it, they're like, I learned as I went along with it. I wasn't at the beginning that I had to make a start in order to become perfect. Yet it's this with it's with the you know, as the same practice a perfect yeah, I just sit there and, you know, dwell upon the fact that you don't have the money at the moment buy the equipment, or you don't have all the knowledge, or just to like people around you know, you just start with whatever you have today, make a start with it, and then new things will start coming to you, because that's just how it works. You know, you said you're working on you said I was just sitting there. Thing that we can do or when this happens, then I will it doesn't work like that. I completely agree, and I think, you know, you hit the nail on the head with Dart, and I think like a good a good at. Another example is like, you know, we're both sat on our car. You know, I a driving, like you can't just learn to drive and go there you go. You have to do it and it takes time and it takes yeah, you know, I think it's probably one of the hardest things that you do, but you can see how much you've grown from when you started learning to drive to where you are now. And the might even be times what you know now, where we get nervous. You know, even the certain like new scenario is we're faced with, you know, when we draw it sometimes and you like, yeah, I'm here, I wasn't. I was going to count your own once another tracks are coming in front and I almost forgot how to reverse the car down this and this guy was like me, Jo, me to meet your car for you, and I was like, I'm okay with me, those type of things, because I just got stupid. Other I'm driving, but no, but it's exactly like that. It's, you know, you can't like when I was driving at first. You you how you having to really think that. Okay, I'm, you know, create around about now, I better start shifting the gear at but it start checking the roads, etc. Robert Bus. Now you just do it. It's just say in the car. You just drive off. You don't even think twice about you know, this and that and or about changing the gears or whatever. So it's like you know that the more you do it, it becomes such a habit of yours that you're subconscious is now running you on is psyche. It's not a pilot, more dough because a lot of the things that we do in our life, obviously between ninety five to nine and percent of our life is it's run by subconscious. So when you build those habits, that that let's see, if you do make a decision today that I'm going to be this particular to person from now on, and then you keep working on it, what you do every day. You know, those are habits you build, have it, and those then, I get, get picked up by your subconscious as this is who you are now. And then, without even thinking, as I said, like if you express grastitude on a daily basis, no matter what happens to you, you will always be in the mindset of expressing gratude, and that's because it's sub conscious seeking in, because you are that person which is expressed gratitude and those about myself that I made it a ritual where I'm just like constantly whenever I'm...

...going on a walk, instead of like listening to music, but the next half an hour I'm walking, I just be repeating like thank you, and you know, you know I'm thinking of things where I'm things and thank you for this, thank you for that, or I'm just literally just saying thank you, yeah, yeah, around me, for everything that I have currently, everything like that. So I noticed that now when I go for my walks, I don't even have to think of it like consciously or have to quit shoot. My mom just starts running like in a way, that yet thank you, you know, my mind. I've just got thank you in my mind, but that's how it works, that you have to build habits over time, and that's and who you are as a person. You become that. Yeah, yeah, massively, massively, but I think that's that's really important than I gratitude of being grateful for life. You know what you're what you have, what you are. That's something that I start to doing, like a few weeks ago, you know, writing things down, what you're grateful for, and like well, I want for runing the day, and it's like, you know, you look around me like wow, yeah, you know, I'm alive, and it really does help out perspective, doesn't it? Yeah, it's honestly, like I don't think people realize the power in writing things down. That this is why I like in when it comes to, you know, manifesting and stuff like that. Putting extremely powerful as well. But just with crash shot, that you must to notice with yourself out that you're writing them down. The list just keep some going on and on never ending. We need to start thinking. You're like, Holy Crap, I've been so ungrateful for these things that you just takes them for advantage, like all the time, like the littles of things that I always noticed that, you know, if I see someone outside and who's got as the you know, if they can't see, or if somebody's death or somebody like, you know, it's a wheelchair, it suddenly makes you think that holy coup, like how ungrateful do you have to be? You know I've got these I've got like perfect eye side, I've got, you know, two legs I can walk on. I've got like I've got to beautiful house, Beautiful, beautiful on me about peutiful people around me, and you can think of the next five things because you know, if you want to, you can always think of the next things. But when you start expressing qustitude, it just never end. You just the list just it's like, you know, it's endless. Is Really, really good and the best ritual that I found for myself, as well as that I started doing this for a while ago, that I would just literally still at the wake up. I will just find three things to be to say thank you for so you didn't be like you're a warm bed or like a nice room, you know, and thank you that. You know. I know for a fact that I can go downstairs pectus now. So it's just those little things. Yeah, yeah, or horrible tea or or like great, yea. Yeah, the nicest thing, isn't that you know when you go downstairs, you got food in the kitchen. You know you're going to find something to eat. You're not going to go hungry, which is like and and sometimes you feel like you, I think everybody's, and we've gone to the kitchen out in the summing times, that you know, in the free job, and I'm just nothing to eat, and that's when you start thinking like, oh my God, there's always like there's always food here, likes. It's within us to complain, but if we change our mindset to not wanting to complain, we wouldn't, because we're all we were all going to be finding things to be grateful for then, because you change yourself. Is that the change your mindset, so you end up changing how you behave, how you react to things, because they don't need to really react to things in an extent way. Yeah, no, I completely agree, and I think like we kind of can get into the way to habit like taking things to granted, and I think by getting a gratitude list, you know, makes you more grateful and makes you feel grounded as well, makes you feel more grounded and happy with what you have, because I think we're we can look at the things that we haven't got, that you know, I haven't got this car, I haven't got the latest phone. You know where it is. That's that's much easier to do. You know, where's if we spin it around and be like look, this is what I have got, this is what I'm happy with. I think I had a shower one day and it was not as quite hot as it usually is. Yeah, I was bit like, I was like, I thought a bit negative. I was as not a nice hot shower, but that was like well, I've got a shower, so so, yeah, I mean it's just catching yourself, isn't it? Sometimes? Yeah, and that's what it is about. It's like exactly like you...

...know, you were able to catch yourself do that because you're in that mindset where I have to become up that person. I have to learn. You know, every for all, we all make the safe, you know, the humans at the end of the day, but it's the idea is to don't blame yourself. That all. My God, I'm so nextive, I'm so dos on so that it's always where you're like, okay, I know what I'm doing is not right. Yeah, how can I learn this? How can I become a better person? How can I not do this next time and do it in a better way? You know, and, as you said, you know you started expressing qustitude for it straight away. That you have a shower, whereas a lot of people would just like, you know, morning and growing people do. And that's how it is. You know, some people get so caught up in the dramas is ridiculous. Like there's so many best things to be thinking about, and the best thing of all is that once you start expressing questitude, you suddenly feel really like calm, in termly anyway. But then, because you're expressing quietude and you're you bridge your vibe, now you end up attracting other great things, really really like other food things that are things that the people are the opportunities into your life. That's like a win win situation, basically, where you becoming a better person and you're attracting better things into like brows. If you're just being negative all the time, you're feeling crap about it. Yeah, and then, on top of that, you're going to be attracting at the craps. That's the energy that you're putting out into be the first yeah, you always get back what you're putting out. It all comes back to you. So it's best to be aware of it and put out the positive energy so that you know that you're going to it's time to come back to you anyway. But best to just being positive or, you know, being the mental state where you can learn from your own mistakes. Yeah, not completely completely. And it's like, I know, for example, I share one of your videos on my instagram. I did one of my videos and then you shared it, and it's like that's how the universe works, that's how people should work. It's you know, I'll give you something in the person. You got a gift to receive a venue. It's not like we can't sit there and expect things just to happen for us. You know, life doesn't have life happens for it, does it doesn't happen to you exactly. Yeah, and it's always the case for you. Always should have it in your mind that I am going to give away more. I was reading acting. It's in the science to getting rich. I think it's in that book where it all it all states this that make sure that the value that you are providing to people is way more than the value that you're getting for it. Yeah, so, like I say, telling you something, you know, if I'm I don't know, like whatever, you know, giving you a lecture about particular or whatever, you're getting more value from that then I have. Then you have paid me. Yeah, of course it's like that. Like that book in itself says that. You know, that book is giving me way more value to my life and what I did for it in order to buy that. But which is true? Yeah, of course it was like that. Way. If you're in the mindset that I'm gonna be giving as much as I possibly can, you're going to bound to receive that in any way. Like you know, it comes back to you. Yeah, you're to always be giving that, give as much as you can, because by giving you're actually expressing to the universe that you have in breathing in so much abundant that you do not find giving. It's always like people would give charity intend the money, where they're like, oh, yeah, I can give you a hundred thousand because I've made a million right. But it doesn't work like that. Like the lot of what you have. Give because that's for you. You're trying to tell the universe that I have enough. But if, but if you don't give them, you think you're seeing to the universal. I'm in luck at the moment. I will give all you when I get it. Doesn't work that way because you're giving energy of I'm in lack at the moment, and then you're just going to get more and more lack because when you give you less, I oh yeah, I got plenty, then you get more plenty and then you give more plenty than you get more plenty. So the cycle is just simus different. Yeah, no, I completely, you know, relate to that. I agree with what you're saying and I think like if you're if you're you lose some things in all on I lost start. Why me, or why do that happen? I mean, example, happen to me like my I gave my phone to my book and he dropped it in. My phone screen smashed. I was like yeah,...

...and I was like, I was like and I just didn't say anything. Didn't say anything to him and I just got the phone and I went inside and then I started dwelling on it and the more I dwelled on it, the more negative I felt, the more next to things I thought about and I would have to shake it off and be like it's okay, still works, you know. It's what I'm thinking. From thinking in that state, be in that state. It's not benefiting me. So it's yeah, it's catching yourself, isn't it, and being aware of that. And I think those are really good books as well as it Wallace d wattles, as well as the wattles, the books signed to getting rich. Yeah, yeah, because I'm reading I'm reading that as well, and I read the Napoleon Hill think and grow rich. Yeah, yeah, and it's true. It's you've got to give more than what you you know, expect to receive for yourself, because it's you know that that what you receive will come in time. That it. That shouldn't be the main reason behind it. People will see that. People will see that if it's genuine or not. you see it on videos sometimes when people are are this is my office. You can enroll, you know, if you you can earn a million dollars if you're on this course. It's only twenty a month. Yeah, why, you know? That's the thing. People will get people, people get this thing wrong, really wrong. There like, Oh, you know what I say will much of the mast, but it's like energies so much as well that your vibe speak for itself. The Pope, and you're just like it's don't know why it is. Don't buy that person. Yeah, you know, you just met them and you're like, I don't really want to talk to that person because I don't know what it is. But you've got this internal good feeling about this person because your energy, you're who you are as a person, that energy of your energy that surrounding you is rejecting their energy because it's just it's maybe not. It's all right for you. Yeah, and that's when you have to listen to that in a voice of yours, because it's actually protecting you from a lot of stuff as well, which people to attend to get into. If they're getting a bad feeding towards something, there might be a bigger reason out there for it. Yeah, and you don't know at that moment. Yeah, that's the thing. But yeah, I mean there's no point in dwelling or the things like you how you didn't do it over the form of thing. That just makes sense, because you know there's don't means, because as soon as you probably change your mindset of thinking that there's no kind of mean dwelling on this, it is what it is. I can move on and you start moving in that forward manner rather than, you know, dwelling on something that happened already in the past. Yes, no, you can all the time. The same thing with me. You drop my phone and I lost this was like ten years ago. Maybe it wasn't the screen or anything like that cracked, but I always take care of my phone. Yeah, and she's probably one of the most clumsiest people I know in my life, honestly, and give her anything and she will break you. Likely you, you will be pleased in five minutes. That was all I'm always like, you know, I don't really want to give it to you, blah, and the moment she took it to drop on the floor and I know at that time I really did get out. There's no need for that. There's no needs to like all the points happened now, so you might as well, you know, think in terms of how can you move forward from it? Yeah, I think a lot of people have a lot of past and experiences. People all the jobs of situations or whatever, and they'd allow them to eat them all. Yeah, yeah, happened, and this happened and because of this is happening now, because of this, I'm feeling a certain way and it's like know you're feeling a certain way, because you're allowing yourself to feel that way. If you change how you feel about it, you can change. You Know Yourself, you can change the just it's all about, like them for giving people in terms of like forgiving people as well. You have to the memories are always going to be dead, but I think it will says the obtus that you can just catch your emotions from the memories. That an all that remains. There's just a memory, you know. Yeah, Beca sometimes you think of things that happened in the past and it's just a memory that comes to your mind. You don't feel anything towards it. It's just like it's almost like forgiveness isn't in some way. You're not holding that and it's almost like a burden if you are hold him that. Yeah, there's a lot of energy in finments...

...into it. Yeah, exactly, because the personal getting affected you, nobody else. Yeah, you have to think like in terms of thought to how are you affecting yourself? Did you see, I think I repeated, a clip of a day and you were saying, like he had a guy when he was starting out in the wine business and as guy said to him, you know, he's like all your shit and yeah, it's a Tom and then he said in the future he was all going to be on the show. Is like yeah, so, yes, and it was like I'm the bigger person by a gree INS that, yeah, and I tells you a lot about it. Like, you know, look at him where he is today, and you can tell that that's how person and you know he's earned that position because of where Gary Is. But then that other person who's done that to him, he may not have behaved in anyway, because I think very be to say that he would be heating like literally nothing has happened in the past. He just asked, you know, him to be on his show, to promoting brand or whatever box. He would have definitely felt like, Oh shit, you know, what have I done? Yeah, how you should actually be, like a Garbee was basically setting me samples for him. How you're supposed to be. This is how you do well in life, this is how you know, as humans, are meant to be, that there's plenty to go about. You don't need to be in competition. In that sign and the signs to Gros, it clearly in that that you're not in a world where you have to go out there in terms of competition. You be creative and if everybody's in that creative mold, this world will be like, you know, wow, you know, because nobody would be in that state of putting the other person down. And exactly like what garyteed. If you're going to put him down and you need it, you was. I yet. Come on board and promote your brand. Let, you know, allow yourself to become bigger better. So it's perfect example right there. Yeah, the size is all of your videos and what you do is like, you know, I support you and what you're doing, but you wearing similar like doing similar things. But I'm not going all know, you can't do that. It's about me and I've got to push you down. And it's it's a very narrow minded, selfish way of thinking, isn't it? Like you think like you give what you you get what you give, and it's like if you're being allowed to somebody else, someone else is going to do that to you. And exactly it's got to come back to you. Yeah, energy. It's a nextive energy that you're putting out. You're putting out to an energy that or, you know, I just want to get, get, get, but I don't want to give anything to anybody. So, but there's you know, what you give out you're going to get back. So it's like people just do not understand where they're like. You don't have to be like that. You can. If you think in terms of abundance, you will get abundant. You know, will flourish anyway. So help other people, allow what you like. My whever I've learned. That's why I size it doms like a lot of people can benefit from this. Yeah, of course benefit, and it's almost in wrong to just keep the knowledge to myself. Yes, yeah, be up. The more you put it out that, the more people, you know, awaken that type of knowledge and then they do better with their lives. It's I is, if you if you are in a country where you know a lot of people are opening up their business, so many people are being created, you can clearly see what becomes of that country, because everybody's working towards one goal of becoming successful, of making the best version of themselves, whereas if you look at a country where you know everybody just about everything, yeah, you clearly see the differences between those type of countries that people are willing to put in the work and do and the best themselves, whereas where some people aren't. So it's so interesting. Is that we to talk about and when you think about it or it's it's pretty fascinating. How, you know, I think I we work as human beings and how the world is. M Yeah, it's. Yeah, it's. I think it's just all to do with you. You changing your mindset and once you first around, you can think in a different way. Yeah, you just have to make that decision. You have got that desire to change, and then you you literally make that decision that this is how I am now, and then that is the person then who you then emboder? You become that person, you act like that person, and if everybody did that, you know, it's just, you know, we've been a different people are like, as they say, it's...

...only one person of the population that are into this type of stuff, where you know they're wanting to be competed, they want you do, they're they're aware of everything that's going around. Like people get taken in by the news so large, like the whole coronavirus thing or it on as well. I'm like, you know, it's if you're going to be listening to the news non stop, you're going to be in that fears old Oh yeah, I do that to yourself that so many of my friends will. I constantly complaim with. Oh my God, and you heard of a God, Oh my God, why are you listening to the news? As long as you know what's happening, you're aware of it, fine, yeah, but after that, turn it off. Yeah, why constantly putting yourself in that negative state? Because the more you listen to the news, the more you lowers your vibe. Because, yeah, news the most negative news. When it is it that you're hardly ever he great news coming about. You know it's people don't understand that. Some people have news on in the up sound twenty four seven, and I'm just like, no, wonder you are in that mindset because that's what you constantly think about. Yeah, and even if you're not listening, you know it's going into your subconscious. So that to be very careful. And what you're watching on TV work, you know what music you're listening to and you know who you see. If you're here on Monday morning, if you ever go to work and you're lesson to the radio, they're always morning about Monday morning. And why are you doing this? Are you putting them into the negative mold? And now when they step into work they're like, Oh my God, this Monday morning, but the whole rest of the week to go with, you know, go through in some that's why I always like wonder why, as long as you know, you're aware of what's going on around you, you don't have to continuously keep on listening to it. Yeah, you have to make sure that whatever you're feeding in to your body, to your you know, your mind, it's positive. Yeah, and it's the littlest of things that people do not notice. I can terms of food, but they're eating in terms of the news that than listening, in terms of funds that they have, the colleagues that they're talking to, the you don't think that these things matter? Yeah, that's I feel like that. You know, the more you become aware of this, the more you in better you become yourself. Yeah, no, not completely. I agree. I think the news is, you know, nine, nine percent negative. There is the odd positive thing on that, but or negative news always kind of grabs attention like it's like something bad happening. I I went I got Scott News, my flick through it, but I'm very careful when I do it and how much I do it, and I'll ask going through in the said, Oh, somebody's house hit by lightning, and I was like, Oh wow, I was like, and I saw Gett a bit parano because I was like seeing more news saying might be expecting your location, and I was like, what if it? What if it does actually hit my house or so? Yeah, so I was like like what if it happens now? What if this happens? What if is just because that's what they put you in a few zone and but then you think that what if it doesn't? Yeah, the people don't think like that. People start thinking in that way because that's the first thing that comes to you because they know the media is target to make you feel a certain way. Yeah, so I don't know, I always feel like some people over doing with the news and over doing with the with the you know, the people that the surround themselves with and stuff, and it's they clearly said that, you know, you are the average of the five people that he's been just must more to be a time with. Yeah, so it matters who you are, and even if it's family. Always said that people always think that are yeah, but they're my family, or yeah, but they're like, you know, My Nativity or whatever like that. I'm just like, no, it doesn't matter who they are. If they're not okay for you, you need to, you know, stop listening to them. You need to be you don't have to like kick them out of your life completely, like, you know, know, in that way, just like, you know, keep them at a distance. Be Aware of it. Yeah, be aware of patients that you are having with them. I know I've done that with certain friends of mine who would be like constantly negative all the time. And because you put that boundary there, now you're like can I'm not talking like this. You know, if you want, we're going to talk with and to talk about this. If this were not want to talk like, you know, negative or whatever. They have to respect you, then really, that's just how it is. is to you making up your mindset and you change your life for yourself. Yeah, no, I agree, and it's so important to do that and too, to recognize that in yourself and blood, this isn't working for me, you know, I need to go somewhere else, do something else, because you feel drained of all wise and your energy in your time. You can't get it back. And I say this to...

...one of my friends who makes music, and I said to him like, you know, it's where you put your music and it's who you tell about your music because, like he told me, you know, certain people close to don't support him. And I'm like, yeah, I'm not. Don't tell him, don't tell him about it. Yes, you just feel relative. Yeah, yeah, there's all this. Going to be people who are never going to support you. That's just come down. Yeah, I just I just pulled off on say it's okay. There's always going to be people are never going to support you. Honestly, there's always going to be that those people who are going to be negative towards what you're if you're starting out in something, they're going to be like, Oh, no, there's too much competition, or no, you know, you're not probably good enough. Or with music is such a typicult thing where everybody's like, you know, your parents will allaysay to you when you're at younger age, at aviously, like Oh, it's a hard industry to get into. Your it's a very unlikely chance you will make it. And for me it's like that comes down to the idea where, if you've got that passion, you've got that desire, you can do whatever you want. You can. You shouldn't think of something as hard than it becomes hard. Yeah, if you've put that thing in your mind that, oh, it's a hard thing to do, I'm never going to be able to do it, you are never going to people to do because that's the limitation that now you're putting onto your and your mind. With your friend, if he's going around telling people about his music, you know, and they're saying or it's a hard place to get into, and he's going to start thinking like that and that's the thing that stopped listing those people who are not, you know, those that those people w are probably giving him that advice, are probably not doing anything better with their life. Yeah, yeah, look at you, where you are. You're trying to become better. You're trying doing this podcast. You know, you put that positive message out there and see the difference of the advice that you just gave him that go for to do it and do something that we like, and they just matches. who you tell and who you keep it in your inner circles. A lot now I really appreciate that. Really, really means a lot what you said and really really grateful for it and I think like it as well, what you're doing as well. You know, like it's positive and it's really motivating and inspiring and I think like it's some point where you put that you welcome and, like you said, it's important who you tell them what you do with that. Like you said, there's asn't be that negative person who you know who's going to say something, but you just have to like block it out and just, you know, okay, cool, but not not take it in, because I've put quotes on. I've done a picture where I did a quote once and someone commented or sent a message like almost kind of re taken what I've said and kind of changing it around in I was meant to be like this. I'm like, you spent like twenty minutes doing that. You spend your time trying to do that. Okay, you want to do that. Yeah, yeah, actually it's sometimes you realize. I realized it as well that, if I'm talking in terms of so it's complaining to me that say about, I don't know, the job or their relationship or whatever to me and they've come to me and I'm giving them advice in a way that that is, in a in terms of thinking of a positive way or thinking in terms of a completely opposite manner, and you realize that they don't want, really want to take that advice. They just want to complain and they want to keep themselves in that mindset. And that's when you realize that if you they don't wanting to learn, there's no point in you wasting your time with them. I mean, somethings, some things do go in like you know, it might just make a bit of a difference to them, but if they're in that mindset where they don't want to listen to any advice, there's no need, there's no it just doesn't make any sense, of in terms of keeping doors particular people in your life, because you know that just how they are and they don't like it you speak in a different way. That's what they call because they say it's all there's just like you know, they want you to complain with them, they want you to be moaning with them, and you realize that no, I you don't want to live like that. So what's the point? That's why you, you know, start the universe starts builtering those people out of your life. That's how it works and it's really good they work like that. It's the best face might be hurtful, because some people you want to, I give they somebody job, really either real, really good fight. You want to keep them, but they might they might be really toxic to you as a because they're best fine and the really close to you. Yeah, it's good for you. So you have to decision sometimes. Yeah, you've got to. It can be difficult, but you got to look after yourself, having you, because over time that can wear down on you and...

...you just, like I said, you need to have that balance. You know, you know, you see people sometimes. I've been in jobs with people complaining about the boss, complaining about certain stuff that's really small. But because, I mean, I experience at work in hotels and restaurants, because you spending hours and hours, like working with people in the same place, the things that are really small at all, they're really big almost, because you can find in that that workplace. Yeah, it affects you. It does, because even when you probably went back home, you still have those things in your mind. Yeah, you get literally surrounding yourself with those things non stop. And that's when it comes back to the new system, that if you're going to be constantly listening to the news, you're going to be constantly in that negative mindset because you're feeding negativity into your mind. Yeah, it's some it's crazy. Don't like people who, generally you don't like, watch comedy movies all like, you know, the the Bo if it go like you know what, it's really good, like a happy attitude. You see around them and they tend to have like happy people around them. They tend to do things that make them feel happy. Yeah, people and you know something like Oh my God, it is happy all the time, because they choose to be happy. Yeah, they don't choose to put their concentration and focus on the negative stuff. Yeah, no negativity in their life. Of course there is, because, you know, we're all part of the same world, we all go through down but it depends on you, your character, your attitude or where you're wanting to focus that attention on, and that is that format. As the most is all up to you. What do you want to do? And if you want to be this new particular person, you have to make the decision of becoming it. Yeah, yeah, no, exactly. Like I think a good actor, for example, is like Jim Carrey. He's Jim carries, really like funny and he's really he's quite deep as well. He's quite a person. Yeah, yeah, like him. I think Waquin Phoenix, you know the guy played joker, the guy played the new joker. Oh, yeah, he's did a lot of speeches. He's quite deep. And I think Keanu Reeves is quite down to Earth. Yeah, he's is life, very normal. He's very humble. You know, I think when you're in that like lime light and life, you have to kind of ground yourself. Don't even kind of be quite normal because but but yeah, you do. Have you got any favorite books on me? You mentioned a few today. If you've got any other favorite books that you want to read? I do. I mean the little internal like law of correction and stuff. I would probably see the secret. Yeah, I've read that and sometimes it's really good to go and re read as well, because there's certain parts of it that like the whine normally to do as well. Sometimes it's like if I'm right reading a book either I'll take out a screen shot of it. There's like a stickler paragraph that I'm like, okay, I need to put this into my life style. Yeah, and how I go about doing this? I'll just like take a screen shot of it or I'll just go and write it down. Then that is them. So the secret is pretty good. If you like really really run you to the whole idea of law of attraction manifesting and stuff. I would always recommend that book that it gives you a nice overview and the best thing about it is I realize that if you read other books, they're all kind of reflect back onto that same idea and even thinking for rich, about the whole burning desire and etc. Saturday was talking about, you know, at the back of your mind is talking about the secrets. Their whole the law attraction, the universe and be in it and receiving an etc. And decide to getting rich is the same thing as well. But it in turn, it just basically depends on what type of thing that you want to get into. Both with law of attraction, I would definitely say like these some books in terms of like money making as well, these type of books as well, but obviously like the rist and poor dad, which is really good. Yes, if you want to know more, because I'm really into the whole idea of getting into personal development as well. It's just not just I really like the ideas like manifesting and stuff like that, but I like, yeah, because I always feel like you read those books, as I said, they respect back onto that idea any of thing. So which is really good, constant to come and there's like the for our week and yeah, I've got that one was quite good. Yeah, so I'm trying to think, is...

...that many? Yeah, because of the things I write and think that on my list at the moment to read as well. But yeah, pick in terms of law. But yeah, if it is to those, lay stick to those. But that's the thing is when you start reading into it and the feeling is a secret is pretty good as well, because that's why never got out really like I never got out stuff as well. But see a thing that if you start doing read, reading into the type of thing, you'll come across like more and more and more books. You know, you will realize what's taking your interest more and stuff. So it's it's it's a start off, the a form the think that and then, yeah, yeah, no, I agree. Like I say, if you read the four green no, I haven't. That's quite a good book. That's to do with like like like seivert of attraction and life and things like that. Yeah, I think I look at it. Yeah, whenever I tried to do at least about twenty minutes, for forty minutes every day reading. Yeah, yeah, that's really important. But is it? Is there like anything you'd say to people like now who are kind of going through something, you know, with like terms of mental health? It's current situation. Is Anything you'd like? Yeah, I mean with anything officially, what we've been talking about me that, no matter what you're going through, is basically, I feel like a lot of the time you think that you identify that problem with you. You're like I am this, like let's see if you've got a certain you know you've got anxiety. You like, you know I have anxiety, though I know it's so easy to say if you don't have it, but a lot of the times where you are constantly thinking about the illness, you're bound to attract more illness towards you. M Yeah, my mentality is that, like a lot of people have had like extreme in illnesses, and I think it was this was mentioned in the secret about this particular gentleman who harmonize, I think it was Rumatoris our priss. He had a something like that, and how he got over over it was just basically making himself laugh with like a lot of like funny movies that you just washed constantly, because he thought that if I'm in that state where the stresses, the main cause of illness is loss of the time anyway. So if you get rid of the stress, if you make yourself happy in that happy state all the time, your illness is going to go away. And it worked for him like really, really well. But I feel like it's a lot of the Times people identify themselves with certain situations or certain things that you know, okay, I am this or I have this, whereas if you mentally decide, okay, you know what, I don't have this and now I'm in full health. You know, you make up this particular affirmation that you're repeating to yourself for every day and you're behaving like a new person. Yeah, you may still be taking topics or whatever, but if your mindset changes, what there happens is because if we, I think a lot of people don't really realize this about their own body, that your own body's got healing powers your self. Every organ in your body regenerate to every cell in your body regenerate. So because you are believing a certain way, yourselves up going to continue being produced in a particular way. But if the new cells and if you think in a new way, you you you're giving a new message to thoselves. Now those cells are want to be working in a different in a healthy way. So what's going to happen? You're going to end up becoming healthy. So that's how it works. I feel like if you completely put that belief in your own mind and make that think that you know, I am this style, then that is what you're affirming to reaffirming to every sell up in your body as well, that you know, this is who we are now and this is how they're going to operate, and that's how yourselves work then for you. So that's the thing I think people need to if it's something like those type of things where you're like, okay, you don't know, you want to feel the illness and you you're wanting to become healthy, make sure that you're affirming to yourself in a way that you are now healthy. You're believing that you're healthy. I know I like somebody I was. I read the affirmation once and I think they said something along the lines of I am grateful to remember by you are something to do with Oh yeah, I think...

...they said that I am grateful to be healing, and I'm like yeah, but what are you implying? That you're still in the process of healing. When it comes to me the things, you have to think from the end. So you have to think that the end that you desire it is already you're even when you're affirming and when you're making up affirmation for yourself, you have to state that you are now in for will health. So rather than thing you are healing, you are implying the fight that you have not healed yet properly. So and you know, make sure that your words are what you want the end to look like. Yeah, of course, a lot. And once you start doing that to yourself and you build up, as you say, you know, build up the momentum, build of the of the is about to come. Am On that that thing that, in a reality of George is bound and show up to you out here all reality. And that's how, laurenful health, because if you can think it. That's one of two things. I always say that if you can think it, can definitely exist. Oh yeah, it's goes on to the idea of like, you know, power frequencies and all sorts of that, but it's like our minds aren't powerful enough to think of something that does not exist. So if you can think it, so if you have thought of yourself in full health and that version of you exist, so there is no way that you cannot become healthy because that version of you is out there and you have to down which is tune into that frequency or becoming that full vert or healthy version of you. So that's how I think. In that I think change a lot of people's minds as what they're like, okay, fine, then you know that version of me. Is that? Yeah, I just have to come out. That's it. Yeah, no, it makes it makes sense, isn't it looks like what you what you think you become, isn't it? You you think that thing, you'll attract that you, you'll be that, and if you aren't good for yourself, you have to be careful of the words, you know, you say to yourself. Yeah, yeah, exactly exact. You have to be aware sending. Once you start becoming aware and just naturally come to you, you start being more aware of the words that you use, because the words are extremely powerful. That the you know, even when people to see things as a joke, like, Oh my God, I'm dying, like a normal thing, I used to feel you may be seeing these things to the joke, but you know what, let's go and shut down all because we're yeah, how it affects people. Don't. Don't think in terms of like, once you become aware of it, you stop using particular words. It's like really, because the thing is so important to self educate itself, like you have to go through that in order to become this new person that you want to become. You have to be active into it, to get more information, you know, at such yeah, yeah, no, I completely, completely agree, and I think, like you knows, so important what we do say, what we think. You know, I energy you know the things that we've covered. It's so important to be mindful of Tho, isn't it? You know, like you're the way you think, like you know, your mental health affect your physical health, and then it's all into links. Opens into links. Yeah, it's just you can't separate yourself from, you know, people on I go out thinking this way. Well, act in this way. You can't. You have to know. It's all linked up, what you say and how you add, how you behave, what you believe. It all it's all new. Yeah, so you can't separate your own self from certain things that you know. Oh yeah, I think of this. Only desire is this and if I think a certain way, this is what will happen. No, but if you're not act like it, it's not going to happen for you, because that's that's what you're behaving my last the energy that you're putting out. You know, he said energies, you know. Yeah, I major thing. It's amazing, amazing, good, Nice. It's been a pleasure, like, you know, talk to you on the podcast and really, really, really grateful for your time. And, you know, I think now you welcome. And like where, where can people find you on like social media? So it's all. It's just basically my name on Youtube and instagram. That's me. All my videos are meanly on Youtube and and then I post like some of the clips I take on the Youtube and then I'll post them every time I'm put a new video out and like on Instagram, is basically d post every single bit, you know, different letters or just a motivational post. That such R so, yeah, that and I'll put it. I'll put in the description for you as well. Thank you,...

...and you. Welcome. Welcome, really great time. It's being really, really nice and I think we've covered some really good topics that, you know, I really I think, really important. I think people will benefit a lot from them. No, it's not speaking to you as well. That's the best thing about these types of things, like the more you speak about them, the more you yourself learn as well. Like the speak to you, the more stea to other people your own mind, like yourself anyway, and then you end up open your mind up to new possibilities and new opportunities, etc. So it's really great to be always active in these type of topics. More you talk about them than it is. Yeah, really agree. Yeah, yeah, nice, but it's really it's really been a pleasure fore house. Now. Thank you say for me as well. It's going to thank you. Welcome,.

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