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The Parrsitivity Podcast

Episode 41 · 2 years ago

The Parrsitivity Podcast #Episode61 Saliha

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In today's episode im reunited with saliha @untoldstorytold we talk about spirituality, passion, energy and much more! This was recorded via an Instagram live --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/the-parrsitivity-podcast/message

Hither. My name is Adam Po and the podcast host posity to podcast. In this podcast, you will be listening to me connect with people from different walks of life, from the military to people in the music industry, to people in the self help industry and many other areas of life. In this podcast I'll be talking about topics from self help, mental health, motivation, spirituality, mindset, society, current affairs and much, much more. If you enjoy this podcast, please subscribe, share and let me know your feedback. And my main intention on this podcast is to have a positive impact for you, the lit the listener, to take something positive from it, to apply something positive into your life from this. Now with without further ado, let's go to podcast and enjoy. Hi, and welcome to positives of podcast. In today's episode I'm rejoined with Sally her. In today's podcast we talked about passion, energy, spirituality and doing what you love, and much much more. Now, sit back, relax enjoy this episode. Gun instagram live with on the podcast before. Hope you are. You're right. Good, how good? Kids? Yeah, good sir. Yes, finally, I know. Yeah, now, appreciate you coming back on. Really means a lot. Means a lot to me too. Good, good, yes, Hey, I just staize it's just us right now. Yeah, yeah, kind of, I mean. Yeah, yeah, but yeah, I mean people kind of come and go. I mean you don't know what people have got. See the busy and things like that. We have in our heads. We have our own like audience happening right now whenever we talk to ourselves or to others, people like you and I, we already like working it out to the universe and all dried listening to us somewhere. Yeah, yeah, like you as going on and then you kind of like put it out there in a like different ways and like your own way, don't you as well? Yeah, and I love this way of con conversing because what happens is that you kind of reflect, you observe and see, what did I just say? What did it? What came out of my mouth? Right, yeah, him a head. Then you kind of like look at it in hindside and you look self as an observer, and then you're also look...

...at yourself talk. So you're like, okay, so whatever I heard doesn't match what I'm saying. You See, yeah, a lot of time where you're going to change and you're growing you don't know it till you have to face it. Yeah, if you have to talk about it, like, Oh my God, it's happening within me, it's like an explosion, but till I don't talk to someone. Yeah, yeah, I agree. Yeah, it's like it's going on inside you and then you kind of voice it and you put it out there and you kind of seem like a different perspective, don't yeah, yeah, I'm so tired. I just put the kids to bed and I'm like yes, and I'm like I have to get here, and now we're in my room trying to get this light thing happening so I don't look so so, yeah, died. Yes, I suppose do. You just get into routine doing that, like you know the kids, it's just posit. Naturally, when you are kids it becomes natural. Yet I think, just like with anything that you do, which stop doing, types which people my audience care awesome, the thing it will have a night where you just like, Oh, I'm so tired. You're grateful, but yeah, I think your bodies like saying, okay, this is too much. You Need Pat from the future you have from the great schools, abundant that you have still needifications of that, and I think it's mostly to do with people who wonder about things and they eat that time underneath a tree, or even if it's outside the house, right away from all of the days happening, even if it's just putting yourself in the car and just music. You need that little face away from the things you do love. You need to love me yourself first. Yeah, yeah, I agree. I think why you have to sometimes have tell that time away from something, go somewhere, even if that's going for a walk or going to different locations, kind of makes you think out the situation that you're in and reflect and it makes you probably grateful flight what you have. Yes, yes, exactly. That's why traveling can be important, because when you're traveling, you just kind of think about where you are, what you're doing, doing and what you're going to go back to. Yeah, it's like it's so far from routine or anything that reminds you of something that you need to get done. So it's just like the doing a space where you're like, Oh, hell, what do I do now? So I'm a tourist, so I need to do curiously face. So what do we do? Does it to you do. So you get into this little place where you be paid even differently, and then your thoughts. This is different because you preceive things differently. Same like if somebody comes to your city and it times a traveler, they would have a different perspective for where you live and what you do and the like. You know this is a good place, but you're like if here day, day, night, right, if you're different? Yeah, it is different. Everything's perspective. It's how we think, right, and then then then that change of things like this, for something bad happens, you're like, Oh my God, I need to feel like really like Harry, because this is how we have been conditioned to feel. Yes, there's of course it's your emotions, but not do affect where you go like depressed and make it feel like because it's all in your head. Just hold in your head. If you go like happy. Yes, it's not respective, is it? And it's while, you said, if you're in certain location, you can probably just get used to it and take things for granted. Really problem yes, and then, yes, just look at my dog. But it's so, you said. It's supportant to have that different, different location and just a thing in that space. Yeah, what you saire saying before, like appreciate where you are, being grateful to where you are. Well, that's important. You know whereas you know, not so you're not getting the results that you want. Straw away, you know, try not get frustrated and seeing where you actually are and what you're doing. Yes, because we need to be happy with what we have. And what happens is often times we always told to dream of something that is the future. So if you have somebody, what are you suppire to be or what's your dream? Everything is like the future, heavintly place where everything will be beautiful and I'll be like shiny and everything will be beautiful, you know, a place. So everything...

...that you're dream got right. But the idea is to be happy in the present, happy meaning, but that, like everything is as perfectly as you imagine to be. But just to be grateful for everything you do have, because it's abound to propecially people like you would I we've got like food, clothing, Hill, basic necessity. We can just dwell in that abundance and the bunts that is for us in the future. Just you know, it's just lines up for us, because you're not very ungrateful in the moment. So it's grateful things line up for you right. It's like that people send to always look like one day I'll be happy, one day I create that. No more, I'll do that or do that project. So what I like about you is that you thought about doing a podcast and hey, who are you doing them? You would you just rend with your blow, because your gut feeling your interviewing was like this is what I want to do and whatever it takes me, I'm not ready. I'm not afraid to fail. I'm not afraid to be afraid anymore. I don't Ye, what language there with gamps mummy, like yeah, so what happens is that you have to heal. You go fearless, and people equate fear, which is scary things, is something like, you know, need to be really afraid of jumping from high. No, fare comes in many levels and they kind of for you. Those those emotions scripple you and to put you in this place where I like, I can't do this. What you did. You went like this an explosion, and now you have so many people who are watching your podcast, I think, and more than hundreds hundred views. Yeah, yeah, but quite a lot over time. It's going to be up over time. Yeah, now I appreciate it really means a lot and, like you said, it's it's just taking a leap and take an jump. But I think for so long I put things off and put so much energy to worrying about what people think, whereas I was like, you know, we always but it. Yeah, what if it doesn't work? Oh my God, feeling. You know, you know what, now I'm order. Now I'm puting something better. You know, so what if I am not doing the best, but you see what happened. To say, the best thing is that when you see in the floors dead it out and then you can only get better. Right, people will either like it, I'm not like it, but then it's for you to say you like it on you don't like it and if you want to improve. So that will motivate you to improve, other than just like thinking about doing a podcast one day. Yeah, enjoy the journey to that highest point you want to get at. Yeah, maybe there's something even better, but enjoy the moments that take you there. You can just skip and you know it's time. Just imagine something and it's right in front of you. If you want to be that grateful. So this one journey makes for that's so when it comes to you and it's for the to all, you'll be like wow, yeah, so much. Yeah, I know. That's that's exact clear and I think, like you said, like in life isn't it's enjoying that processing of the journey, and I think we get caught up in not being in that moment, not enjoying the journey. We're just wanting that thing will working to we're just focusing on that mold. Little bits in between, and I think you've got to look all a little bits in between having you. When you get to that point, you can kind of a flat back and see how far you've common. You appreciate it more and many times you are presented with a situation where you're like, Oh, this is what I creamed up masted, it's right in front of me. But that is where you get like a shock, because if you're not ready for it and you're like this is it, I got it, this is the end of my journey, you'll get you get shocks in different ways. So it might get a person who you drink dreamed of having in your life and they are like a middle to you. And then bringing out all the bits and you that you happen fixed. The idea is that when you dream of something and you see that is right in front of you, and if you have this gut feeling that has come a bit too quick, yeah, because that, that feeling, is thing. I need to really love myself a little bit more. That's what I do. Embrace it. So you have go on this journey, the ups and down to there, but as long as connected aligned, then then nothing happens to you in the process. Nothing can happen to you. I mean you want you grow only now. I agree, and I feel like you said, you you grow from it and you've got to go through those motions having you, you...

...know, regardless of what comes off, and I it's being patient, isn't, and it's just twisting yourself and loving it in what you're doing. You know whatever that is, and just just pursuanize that. That's it. And you know, I think the greatest of people who have done things, I created things, even millionaires, and all I've whatever I've read, they just go with their feeling. At once, the thing is clear to them, it goes into their thoughts and then whatever was in the subconscious that needed to get little bit of a push. They get that. Bush people slide down their dreams. They're very successful people who know what they want, and then they so the idea is to work at yourself every day, but not in the sense that has we could that. You, you know, the way with the tredy world. You know, work tireously and action orientate that you know yourself set, even if you have, you know, had a glass of water and thought about your alignment. What that glass of water? That is your that that's what you do for that day. But the somethings you feel like, I want to create this, I want to do this. Someone who does not want to help that person's want call that day. It comes like a flow and you want to do everything possible right. So it's over. You intution, go with what you feel inside. I think one should do that and then not make it not fun. Make it fun. The process should be nothing else but fun, and if it's not fun, you know that your alignment is out of one. Oh my God, I know all these things and I have all this information, and that's the divine innection and I feed it and those lucid dreams or whatever then you're just like a treaty little kids and you're just sitting like like why? I think I know. Why. Do I cripple and become that little child who needs love, that needs that hug? So that's why you God, this is a journey. It's beautiful. I think I love it. How when you get the little while you sitting like this, you're like, okay, thank you, but I want to cry. But everyone we should, you know, like this. It's a human for human. You know, we are told you need to be either I did that, but they don't you reality, or there's not multiple personality you have, otherwise you like a crazy person. Yeah, so we are and where that's we are, because we'd rather beware than to follow masses and conform and become like little living in the square and tell Lunchon. The same continues from your ancestors to you and to assure as if you don't break the chain, it to go on. I can change the way of thinking to start with. Yeah, I think you're right and I think, like you said, it's energy you they like some days, you know, lots. Can kind of come to you with my ideas and force of what to do, and it can be like overwhelming and you can kind of like so, go to this like place where you feel like a little kid and you've bet like well buyers. Yeah, and, like we said, like with people kind of conforming and being taught what to do by their parents and so forth, I'm just kind of copying what everyone else's doing. I know that you have to work, you have to do stuff. You can find something that you wanted. It isn't just be doing something for your parents. That all you need to do. This, Oh, that's part of my life. I've just forgotten all about it. Where used to do everything because your parents. that it wasn't because if I don't seem the control that I spent, like if I did that for that and stuck for mom, it'll be proud of me and they love me more. And there was this particular instances on education. If you don't get good grades, then you're really in at aiming us or something, and it's the money that, if you're for your all the speech, and I thought that was the is in the second size. Yeah, this is a little bit of inkling into my life that I just thought. Yeah, being a list I sat up was very connected to my Paris, so for me to the cares and then the rest of my siblings. So I felt it when day sussist use words such as, you know, we're paying for your food, we're paying this and this is the group, this is what you're doing either the grace you're getting, and that s the teenage. That was really tough because you don't...

...know whether you want to impress your parents or whether you want to make them would that make them happy? So till you don't make them happy, you're in state of unhappiness where you feel like you can't make them happy. So you're not happy, like a very bad place because, especially when you're a teenager, you need that, you don't you need that space where you can talk about your feelings, your arm on your emotions, and you get this in a block where it's like, if you don't get good, great, then you can't. We don't love your you know, the want watch seeing for the week or something. So I am I have looked into all of but that's part of my life to make sure that my kids I can do it differently and I spend no, no, but no parents has a book to read through that how to be a parent and even if they did have a bookcase. The metham doesn't happen to you. Yeah, you can somebody else, and even if you do, you can be a very different betted to another part. So being a parent today, or I could say is that my parents did the best the court with what didn't do. And then it's not just one person dynamic, it's two people, but Tom Coming together and they're raised all these kids. Who Comes from them? Is Very complicated. I mean we can't. Even when we have to take a decision about buying the car, we thinking twice, like they have to. They have to make the pass like set and make sure we're doing the best for children. And despite all that, you know, there we are, yeaecially all of that. So did this. They must be doing something right, which we couldn't see with that eyes, you know, because we tend to hold on to the negative experiences and the beautiful experiences are not as heavy as the negative ones. This is what happens when you're a kid car, isn't you see? It's so interesting, is it? When you think about it and you think about how people are so why they do from and because of time, it's, you know, your parents tell you what to do, your parents saying, you know, you should go and do this because your Grand Dad did this or you this is what you should do, this is a roads need to go on. Yeah, you know, you can feeling the pressure. You know, a lot of people, I think, different cultures as well. It's very much like you know, it's very different. Yeah, different countries, and it's like, you know, like students are just doing things because that law, or being a doctor because their parents wanted to be a doctor and they don't actually want to do it. But the going to university anyway to say look, parents, is what I've done, like the own us, like you know. So they made us who we are. That kind of notion. So if they made us who we are and they still make for a Tutution, so we must do something to reward them. So in that you just use the sense of what you would have ever done for yourself. Imagine, like yeah, course, please, if you would have applied yourself and have done much better, I mean would be more hard connected, going slow when you have that sign of culture that you grow up. And Yeah, my culture has a lot of that. But yeah, I think every family also different. HMM, you have you so like it's about the parent kind of supporting the kids. Thoughts. Thanks. Sorry, then that's yeah, I think I said like as long as you support your child and whatever they want to do and, you know, forcing them to do something, you let and their make up their moon do why we want to do. Yeah, and with my children I do that, like my door's only six and my son's free, but my sixth year old I would let her, like I would put these instruments in front of her with a their toys, but I would let her to explore what she wants to do and if she is really strongly feels for things, like if she doesn't want to have that particular whisper, I don't go around and say you have to eat it and say okay, so if you don't want to have the properly, you want to have to cart it, and she's like Oh, but I don't like to buy that cater so I said, okay, I've started like kids. You wanted now and then okay, so I don't. Others I remember, like as mom as I knew back in the day, they would be like no, after bitch, is it that sir? No, but a gift should have a thing to whether they like something or they don't. They don't. But there's as a mom, you need to know whether it's just you know, watching thing what, I don't want it, you know, or like meaning it from their heart because they feels they don't want to eat that. To See, but they're eat. Thinks great,...

...but are so coming back to letting your kids explore they want to do, because you don't know how. You know how all that the camp, the genetics and everything has come by together for to maybe create something grand new and if you just think in the square and the world is not your oyster. Yeah, what potentially topic? Yeah, no, it's saying you know what you can advise and call you and you know thing, should probably do this, but you know you're not forcing them in that direction. And it's having that alternative, like you said, is, you know, giving your kids some food. If it don't like that, then you know they here's this. It's not forcing the probably too. He's trying to see you over alternatives. Yeah, listening that old hey, is that somebody from your listing? Their name is a bit similar to mine, so I was like, oh, cool, somebody else. I thought my heame was so long it's thinking about change aunt story talk, and I'm like, I should probably do a video about what it really means to me to have that, because people wonders. I mean I do get questions like why did you have that name? And then you're talking about filmmaking and then you talk about spirituality. It's so funny. This whole life journey is about, you know, discovering yourself, and my thing was always about making short films, that I really wanted to make short films, and then, you know, I've got to involved with my children when they were babies, and it's fine because I was enjoying it and I was going with my clothes that once I feel I have this face as start getting to filmmaking, and once I did, I wrote the script. Finally N Covid came in, and I don't think that's even stopping me because, I see it, I needed to prepare get much more better at that script, and now that script is so good that I look at it as like well, well, so so what I'm trying to say at the same time the school spiritual bosses started happening and that that process started with, you know, getting over my procrastination, my anxieties that I don't know, just somehows developed. And here I am thinking about growing spiritually as enthusiastically as becoming a filmmaker. But it's like you can be bored right the right to wrong about how you see in this world, because I feel both of them together and one day show me something I need to be. But I'm not going to let go of one thing for the other, because passionate about so many things. Yeah, that's filmmaking is for something that like handed hands for me, like, even if it may not make sense, like yeah, no, I mean so. My films are for sure, now that I think of its stories, to end up being emotion, otions and people and getting over traumas. It's something that you're passionate about, isn't it? And your you said you working on this and then this current situation up and it's kind of probably give me more time to go over what you're making and just tweaking it probably that little bit more films and making, you know, animations or movies. It's your like an expression of yourself, and somewhere else does such a good way said it the way you said. Thank you. There's what happens that if you're so creative. It's can hear me? Yeah, it's so creative. And your idea, you can. You Get up and you have ideas in your head and you have people around you who don't really get it. They're like yeah, yeah, yeah, but for you with such and then I will do that. I would listen to you. Yeah, probably do that. Why would you get somebody who's who doesn't get our try to understand you. So I understood that they will speak constantly, people around you who are not perceivers to the way you want to express. But then you do find its fever, such of yourself. YEA, a person from sold right. It's so good because because you're just like I, just as I did really say I wanted somebody for my soul dry. But maybe my emotions are feelings called out to people who have similar a similar miselt like your stuff. Yeah, could, if it's people like us. We like that because we feel that other people need to feel this too. Yes, it's connection. Yeah, it's a I mean all our conversations come down to making feeling so good about these connections that we get where, like the other person is like a high big like I get you, you get me,...

...and like could know about it. What do you announce it to the world? Yeah, I feel like a lot like most of these podcasts, just like, yes, it could be about, you know, space or manifestation or whatever, like I'm following these days Meta physics, but I think in the end it's like the person just wants this feeling of that whatever I understood about life or whatever I understood about the subject, and sharing that with you. Please just tell me that if that it effected you. Order makes sense to because it will help me with myself growth. So I thought about practical yeah, so if you go with that, it's all good. Yeah, no, I really going. I think you said it's the energy much I wasn't it? And that can be with anything. Isn't it like when you just want to share whatever's girl go on with you and what you're thinking, kind of spread that to a people, isn't it go with people to think about it as well and really tuned to what they're feeling and where their tribes? Because it's like that sort of to do with, like, you know, our minds and energy and things where kind of both my same we've lend and then, yeah, when you're in that kind of zone. You can connect with other people in the same zone. And, like I said, if someone's talking to you about something you know really interested in or you're not, you know, something personal, it's not that same click. You know, if you got someone who's really really interested in cars or gardening and you're not, you know what going to sell us? We're going to joe as much comparison. Who is you have read h yeah, yeah, no, no, but no, that's it. And you know fair place someone likes that, then then do it, because other people are going to like the same thing somewhere that you're doing. Yeah, because I was talking to a guy added a podcast with a few times and he's into like ponds, like fish ponds, and making ponds and putting fishing ponds and that's his passion and he does youtube videos like you should do that, because it's going to be people out that like that as well. Yeah, and it has to come from a heart space, right. So, if that's what means, like the border to him, and you wants to share with people that that it shook up from part. You can't just go on like I'm going to talk, but I don't like you know, and we we you know, what happens is like we are respecting everyone for their passions, for their life is and for the likes, because they need to do something from their heart, and we get that. So, whatever you know, it's something that's important to them, that's important to that. So one should do only thinks that latter to them. That makes them happy and it's something does not take joys and that's not what you need to do. I think that's something important to tell your kids, and that's to tell them that whatever you do should give you joy. You know, I think that that wasn't when they when you were kids. That's happy and enjoy feeling of things. School m you know, why don't you do this? You do this because it's going to get you this amount of money. You need this qualifications to don't get up this job. Miss House, you know, that's strip fad, fad tools for our education. It's like to say, we'll choose happiness. You wanted to be happy, that you were born happy. We had joy in I do about like custure, sort of standing in the society and everything sort of makes us all those person great people we don't know, and then we keep all these layers off and you're like, who am I? Who Am I? Whoever? But when you enjoyed happiness, you aren't and happiness, that's what do you want, that's what you're not for self. And then what kind into a body? You are joy and you are happy, and then you forget that. And that's why now, when something makes us like, it feels that, it makes us feel you're for it or are happy, we we just we just don't think much. There's not thought process in it. There's just like deep, it's so good. Yeah, I think, I think you're right, and I think like with that, people seeking their happiness through like external things or places or activities. That's kind of like where, you know, a lot of mental health kind of comes into it. And because people are seeking the people, some people don't realize that, you know,...

...it's within themselves, the things that they fought, especially with the full situation. People all things. We're doing, things that they fought brought them up in us, and then they can't do those things that they for ones bought them up. Oh Yeah, and then people finding the things that makes them happy. Yes, and happiness is so good that put the fast forward. The way it is. Can you hear me? Yeah, yeah, just so the wait this glitch. Yeah, just go down. It's better enough, it's fine. Okay. So, as they said, let let people can get what they wanted. And then they started thinking that, oh, I don't have this material thing, and how could that be happy? Because because I'm like isolated inside the house and I can't, you know, do things like sort by whatever makes people happen. So in that would happen. Is that coming back to again, being happy what you have is what's abundance is all about. So people think abundance is like having that million dollars check something like that. But abundance comes in many falls. So, for instance, people waiting on that that's you know, you wanted to Fu look at. So, for instance, if you wanted that breast that was in the shopping center and you're like you forgot about it, like okay, I will want that dress one day, but whenever it's you know, people like me, I just don't like good going by. I like it said meant to then for me to come to me. And what happens is that something happens. You know, it's your birthday and it came to you. That dress came to you. So that's also way of saying like Oh, that's like abundance coming to me, like that's that's a great where, sort of a niketance. Good, I think. The but and this is a different tast like if it was rainy for a few days and you're like Oh my God, my you know, I don't have a way to enjoy outdoor activities and suddenly it's a sign. That's your buttons right there right. So these little things such as like if you lost the glasses and you couldn't find days and then one day you find they were like, Oh my God, I found them on the day that I needed them the most. It's just lines up. Yeah, if this is abundance, like being grateful for what you have and the magical cool ways the universe, this lines up giving you these little things that you thought, I'm not possible, you know. You know, I've had really interesting things like phone that was not working in the suddenly starts working after days, because I was for those for the ten days that I was away from that phone, I was thinking, okay, maybe I'm just, you know, a person who shakes has technology. Yeah, whatever you touch like kind of like you know, glitches or the ram gets too full of something. So I was like yeah, maybe they're right, but I didn't think about it and attended. Later I picked up the same phone and it was working. So that I was out. I wasn't happy. I didn't have to tell anybody about it, just like cool, this is my phone, it's working safe, you know, and I started get it back on to instagram. So schedule. It's like thank you. I said. Yeah, it's crazy that when you've when you put it like that, is like we can come some say sometimes, I think, want to buy things and then something happens and then you might end up just receiving it anyway. Some for it's some for me to think about it. Yeah, it's like my example, like my my friend he in Nottingham. He's living in this apartment with his girlfriend and there was a fire and it gets it out the apartment. Everything's Okay and everyone's okay or put out. But from that, you know, he didn't have a guard and those things that they didn't have, and then from this file he you know, he ended up getting the House with his girlfriend and he's, I think, is much happier and I'm like that was really bad. Lap. It's like, yeah, the Universe is gone. You know, you got Ye, now you in this situation. But if he did concert, I think if it's got to do with him too, because he must be a very he must be a positive guy, because if, even if that kind of a devastating thing happened to him, he was so hopeful things to get better, right and he didn't get he was positive that he would get that on maybe he's really good at thinking about that. He does deserve their findance that will come in his life, despite what happens, and that's what happens at the universe goes like okay, so you you will still get what you want. And sometimes I think we do get tested a little with disasters. He all, but that's test is not do like the biblical or the Religious Book Test, you know, it's the test the weird. It's good for them, HMM, to go...

...that process, but we don't see that till if we have. But it's good to be an observer your that stands outside your body, and for that meditation is so good because what that does, that said, centers you and makes you really think about where you are, what you're doing and what you really think is important. To you, and a lot of people don't have clarity in their life, so they don't know what to ask for and what they've really deserve. How they never grew up knowing that what they deserve, because takes senders and they got to really understand that we deserve kind of abundance happiness, be or that person not talking to them rudely, like they don't know how to ask for it right, because our years of what love should be, our ideas of what companionship would compassions or else, mixed up, because it's all I up, is all into this one person. You will get in your life and that person will be yours and you will be there and they will give you happiness and you will get them happiness. Everything is like. If they don't give me happiness, there you know they don't mean and then things like anger. Is Somebody who's rude in that nothing's mixed up. Everything is separate. Notion. The idea is everyone is everything and nothing stays the same. Yeah, if you know yourself as you love yourself, meaning as a nurturing yourself, giving them, giving yourself the soulful it needs and not keeping up on your own dreams and believing they will happen and having fun in the process and having your days what's having a days off and still continue on your journey, as you coming back to the journey idea, yeah, we would. We will get this, whether it's with the person without the first with the children, without the children. But of course, if you ask for your high stood, it's what all happened in a beautiful little packet. To Trust, you need to have the surrender, you need to have this feeling that, no matter covid or whatever, bad things happened, is word we're not saying, we're not acknowledging them, but we have to be strong enough with send us so that at yeast in our thought process, we can hold ourselves away from that situation, because everything is temporary and what is there forever is our non physical self. And what if that our soul? So what would you do? Always make sure your soul is okay, and it will be. It's going to feel okay, and that's why would you dif fulled privates like you saying I'm okay, I'm going to be okay, it's like you feel like it's a divide the very rather than tell you this, because it coming from a heart space which is very clear, and then be clear and you can understand when it's true and when it's not true. It comes to whenever in your life where you know this person's bullshitting, know it's yeah, there's something so I don't know. We also what happens is with us, people like we are very soul connected, and so what happens is self is become very forgiving, very forgiffing GIF yeah, very not judgment people don't get it that we are actually non judgmental. Yet there might be some place in the way we glet but mostly, to think about it, we we don't judge. Like I'm like, really, they come to it. We have really worked at ourselves enough to come to this level. It was a lot of hard work, but we don't. But then that makes me wander in. A question that I put to you is that how would you know where your boundaries are and what you know? Is that all to do with just sitting down with yourself and getting to know within what the answers are? Or because people like that, we can also be very giving when we are when we are forgiving. Yeah, we need so where to hold ourselves back and going to give up back and when to give that's what we need to learn, at think I need. Yeah, no, I feel some definitely learn as well throughout all of this. It's not knowing where your boundaries are. With me, I think boundaries kind of kind of come into life past experiences, and that probably time into relationships. Yeah, and it's kind of like knowing, you know the patterns and when the not enough is enough. Yes, and, like you said, really kind of tuning in to yourself and if something is bringing you before you're given out, is and combat to you, then how long can you tell up for Exactus, I going to change true, long, the long part, and like that, because another thing I realized, because now that I'm looking at myself as an observer as to what I said and then what you said, something is something. This thing I realize if someone is really there to not give you the soul food you need and you realize they are just going to not let...

...you go in terms of your soul, do so in terms of energy, whether you need to go towards them or go away from them. I think when you visit your energy every single day through meditation or any bondering or anything that you do for yourself. You come to us, the place where your energy it's something that you sent. HMM, so you you would. I think what happens now is that naturally you would either go towards them or naturally go away from them. The people who don't make further from Earth, well, for you, you'll just, you know, you just retaliate back, and people who mean you just go to words that. I think I feel like that and I feel like that in my life and it's like when you feel it, you feel it. You like, I'm not going to stop feeling it's a good it's a positive feeling and feeling for the same people who didn't make me feel positive. But if they're being in it, in a space where they're being good, do you good to you, then you're like a feeling good. But if they're not, you just got back. Yeah, there's nothing crazy about that. It's just your energy goes and goes away and it's just think my boundary is when you stop that line. You know, I'm learning how to make that line like a strong, like yeah, Blurry's like, I know. No, I think you're right. Boundaries, boundaries important. On you could look after yourself and I think if you're not look not yourself and loving yourself and you you can't do that someone else. You can't list someone else if you're not loving yourself. You got a much starting you. You've got about mutual synergy and there's so much Energ in time goes. You know, can Goss thing and has to be much. You know all that. Persons to be willing to kind of work on stuff. Everyone. YEA, every. We cannot expect anyone to be anything that. We caught their wants well, because everyone is growing and everyone has their own up bringing and their own belief system and their own way of see things, and there's their perception on life. Is there is so it's why would we expect there to bless when we ourselves are such a complicated human beings to understand? Right? Yeah, it's Fu to be with you, be disguise the crazy, because, well, and you wouldn't tell them to be with you like stay with me, or want them to stay with you. It should be like a like. You just get back in energy with with each other. Right. It's not like having a constructor a contract or something to put you two together. And that's the thing about relationships. That's how they should be. I think, HMM, no, I can agree more well on the you know, all our journey or we will calling things, you will go in things. Yeah, so much to work out. Thank you so much for day. Not if it welcome fifteen minutes. Yeah, I didn't think I'm going to do life because I talked over peason number one, number twos like that, without business, and I don't. I would like, why would I come, like show my tired face, but then I'm like, this is who it's been. It be so no, yeah, I enjoyed it, really enjoyed and I think your friend enjoyed it as well. She loves these PODCASTS and she's been following us. So thank you for she must be who did your hundred yeahs. Been Great Time to you, then it's being great. You know. Hope people watching enjoyed it. More more to come. It needs with yes, okay, good bye from Sidney. Think here and that's why I don't everything. So thank you. No, no, thank you as well. You welcome and thank you from England. Thank you. Yeah, all right,.

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